Dannyb77 Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 I'm in a relationship with a woman who is my age ( late 30's) She is pregnant with 4 months pregnant with my child. I really want to be there for her, my unborn child, and her child from a previous marriage.n The issue is, she has had numerous people ( all friends of hers) try to break up our relationship. First there was a friend who would constantly try to ruin our dates. A friend who felt she had control over my girl. It was almost like this woman had an obsession with my girl. I still think that friend may have been a lesbian. Then her former husband has tried to get her with him again. Her sister's former husband has even tried to get my girl to spend a lot of time with him. Even asked her to go with him to his lake house 3.5 hours away for the city she lives in. Not to mention he wanted my girl to spend the night with him at the lake house. Now the main issue is with her best fried who dates men who aren't spectacular at all. This friend has constantly tried to get my girl to forget about me when me and my girl has argued in the past. My girl has a personality I can deal with, but after speaking to her friend at times, my girl becomes someone else. I'm a college graduate working a job that isn't too great. I believe her friend uses that against me. I earn and honest living. My girlfriends friend is a drug abuser who prefers my girl dates someone that either does drugs or isn't too fond of living a clean life. I'm a lame in my girls friends mind. There are things me and my girl agreed we will do when we got into a relationship. Her friend has done all to see me and my girls agreements as irrational. Me and my girl share some of the same rules concerning dating. Her friend's views are different. I believe her friend uses my girls vulnerability at times to influence her. Me and my girl broke up a few months ago ( before she was pregnant) for a few days. Her friend didn't hesitate to try to hook my girl with a drug dealer,criminal and drug user who is now in jail or prison for drug, possessing a firearm while being a convicted felon, and possessing a firearm while in the act of doing a crime. My girls friend only dates men who are on meth. My girlfriends friend also uses a rich senior citizen as a sugar daddy. Now I'm having a kid with my girl. I've had a fail relationship before. I rarely see my kid from the failed relationship. I don't want this to happen again. My girlfriend had stopped talking to her friend for reason that doesn't have to do with me. But recently her friend has been trying to make amends with her... My girlfriend said after her fallout ( around February) she'd never talks to her friend again, but her fried is trying hard to make amends with her. I told my girl how I felt. I told her I don't want her friend at any house I'm paying bills at. Am I wrong ? I don't want her friend to ruin my family I'm about to start with my girlfriend Her friend has tried to persuade my girl she needs to take to her ex husband who wants her....she's even told my girl she should FaceTime with him. My girl doesn't even want me talking to my coworkers despite I'm a manager at my job. I don't understand how her friend could make my girl believe my girl can have leisure conversation with her ex husband on the telephone and FaceTime My girl makes it hard for me To do my Managerial job at times,because I have to converse with women ( subordinate co workers) at work. Please help me see what I should do... I can't deal with the advice my girls fried gave my girl that caused our relationship to be a roller coaster like in times past. Even more now because we will have a child together... What should I do ? My girlfriend has know her friend since middle school ....
FitChick Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 She is not a girl, she is approaching middle age. Therefore, she is unlikely to change. Unless you can get her to move away, you are stuck.
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