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Thanks guys for all your help on my last thread.

 

Just to keep you informed of a change in situation-

 

Me and MM found the whole thing too hard:

 

-Age difference

-BS

-Baggage

- My unfair expectations

-His slight resentment at leaving home for me.

- Me moving to the city

 

After our 8 month A we've called it a day, 6 beautiful months of living together but the whole thing is just too damn hard. Its too many factors, and we both feel ultimately we can't give eachother it ALL. Its not fair, he wants a family, and I can't give him that.I need to travel and work in different cities and experience everything I can and he can't move around with me, he has children and a business. Also the thought of me being 50 and him 70 does not rest well with either of us. There is too many sarificies, and even though im willing to make them now, we both don't think its sustainable.

 

We had a fantastic weekend together and now we are over. NC for atleast 6 months, we can't be friends straight away, theres too many emotions.

 

I feel broken and like a failure, why didn't it work between us, why was it so hard.

 

I'm young, im going to chalk it up to experience.

 

Thanks for being somewhere to vent LS.

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