dub fx Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 After months of drama and fights and been trown so much bread crumbs I was in a good solid Nc for almost 2 months.And now she sents me I miss you. Im so not over her and I think and miss her every day. I would love to pick up contact. But she has hurt me a lot and I think it is so much better to stay NC. But im affraid I cant controll my self and will start texting back.. i guess the smartes thing is just to ignore her? Im anyway now at the other side of the world.. I actually know I just have to ignore it.. I just hate myself for loving her still so much after get dumped, tossed arround, ignored,....why cant I just erase this part in my brain and just live on ky happy single live?!?! Aaarrrhgghh im just having a crazy day ..
Giha Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 Yup. Delete the text and don't reply...it would only set you back.
Suave Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 Sounds like me, dude. I was dumped after two and a half years because I got complacent. Went through the whole embarrassing facade of pleading and all that you never want to do, which eventually made things worse even though she stayed with me for a little longer. I lost her for good a few months ago. Was in blissful NC until I ran into her at a local establishment. After I left with another woman, she started texting me asking if I was going to get home safe and if I was alright. I stupidly responded instead of ignoring it and apologized for not saying hi in the bar. She said "It's okay, have a safe night xoxo" and it was that last part that really hit me hard. Since then it's been tough getting her out of my head which is exactly what she probably wanted. Moral of the story: do not break NC. The "I miss you" is code for "I want to see if you're still into me for myself, not for you."
Author dub fx Posted June 11, 2013 Author Posted June 11, 2013 Haha man this is a long crazy story haha. This chick is losing it completely wooww. Anyway she texted it on facebook so she could see I've seen it. So she started to text drama **** like her life is a mess and she misses me and she hates hereself and wanna kill herself. Can't love no more and can't do stuff with people and problems, and releatons dont work,... ( I don't know her this way, what happend to this Happy chick?! I was 1.5 month overseas and I come back straight away fights brake lose i get ignored and dumps me and goes F*cking wiht this new guy from work. wtf She texted me loads of **** till one point i texted back get a grip. And explained the **** she has done to me was not cool and she has to leave me alone for good. I told her go cry at your new boyfriends shoulder, i had my share. She wished me luck and i'm so sorry blalblablala wtf I never could have imagin my first love 2.5 year relation would turn out as 6 months of crap. I think i dodged a bullet. wowwwww And those months of no contact started to feel much better, but always still hoping she would contact me loll but not like this! After the short text conversation on fb i think i feel like im almost soooo over her. Ofcourse i think lots of her but i gues its normal after 2.5 years travelling togheter! Just what a shame 2.5 year of good fun ended with an other months of crap where i stepped in a few times. But this time im moved on for goodddd And i met load of new awesome chickies Just felt like i had to post my storry quik
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