tiffanyfebtwo Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 He dumped me 8 months ago, then we were on and of during this time, but it sounds like I was giving him this chance to become his B plan so I decided break that cycle and just stay away. we saw each other some places that we both are member there, so I though this does not work and made another decision. to move on completely I have to disappear from his life. so I needed to change my life schedule and avoid places that he is going there too. I am n my 8th day NC, its really hard, even though the break up was long time ago but because messing around the wounds of break up are still fresh. it is like an addiction. when I see or hear from him its like I am high and when I dont then I am so anxious and deppressed. so this is the reason I am here to get some help from every one, to help me to keep continue my no contact rule. either he will come back for a serious relationship again or not but I wanna stay away till I am strong again. Love and peace out there.
flitzanu Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 He dumped me 8 months ago, then we were on and of during this time, but it sounds like I was giving him this chance to become his B plan so I decided break that cycle and just stay away. we saw each other some places that we both are member there, so I though this does not work and made another decision. to move on completely I have to disappear from his life. so I needed to change my life schedule and avoid places that he is going there too. I am n my 8th day NC, its really hard, even though the break up was long time ago but because messing around the wounds of break up are still fresh. it is like an addiction. when I see or hear from him its like I am high and when I dont then I am so anxious and deppressed. so this is the reason I am here to get some help from every one, to help me to keep continue my no contact rule. either he will come back for a serious relationship again or not but I wanna stay away till I am strong again. Love and peace out there. stick with NC. if he won't commit to you, he doesn't want a relationship from you, so don't give him the satisfaction of keeping you as plan B. 2
Recommended Posts