If you've had your first kiss, is the first kiss with the next person special too?

[Dancegirl1]

Me and my first bf broke up a couple months ago. We had great chemistry and dated for 15 months. We were each others first kiss. So everything else intimate was special too. Will it be that way with my next bf? I don't kiss random guys or anything. Just bfs. I'm 18 btw lol. I feel like it'll be hard to find that with my next guy. Me and my ex really had something great. Or at least I thought so. He was 17 and couldn't handle a relationship anymore and now he's a jerk. :/

[SER]

Sparks will either be there for your first kiss or there won't. But I can tell you from experience that you special first kisses do occur more than once (just may not be with every guy).

[Casablanca]

There has always been something special about kissing a new SO for the first time, so yeah it will still be there.

[CarrieT]

I'm approaching 50 and can confirm that the kisses can get better and better.... :love:

[tbf]

There's different types of special with different first kisses. I wouldn't worry about it.

[DannyMason]

I've only kissed one girl in my life but given that I could see other special first kisses happening in the future I'd say you too can look forward to many special kisses.

[USMCHokie]

Once you've had the first kiss of your life, it becomes less about the kiss itself and more about the person you're kissing.

[Lani]

First kisses are always special.

It takes you back to that giddy teenager feeling, every single time. You get that little heart flutter.

 

You'll see what I mean when it happens.

[ThomasD]

I have dated only two girls, so I can't point to a long resume' like some folks on here. Both became girlfriends whom I loved and each relationship had its "first kiss".

 

The first happened when I was 18 and our relationship lasted about 6 months. I still have memories and mental images of that first, first kiss. It wasn't her first kiss, and she had to all but shout "I want to kiss you but YOU have to start it!!" before I could work up the nerve to do it. Over the next few months she taught me A LOT about kissing (as well as lovemaking in general, even though I never fondled her, saw her naked, or had sex with her).

 

My second girlfriend, and second "first kiss", happened over four years later. It was on the day we first laid eyes on each other, at the end of our first date - which was a very unusual first date because we had been writing to each other, sight unseen, for over three months before we met in-person. Looking back, that was a good way for two quiet-and-shy people to become very acquainted on a personal level - almost to the point of being "in love" without having seen each other.

 

I knew she was quite conservative and traditional, and came from a rather strict family so I was afraid to "test the boundaries". After all, we had just met only 6 hours ago . . . But as a 22 yr old guy of the male sex, I had a reputation and expectations to uphold. So I initiated the kiss, expecting to get a perfunctory response out of obligation, or even a brush-off. To my amazement and great delight she let me kiss her - and she KISSED BACK - REALLY KISSED BACK!

 

I went home from that date thinking, "I may have met my life partner . . . ". One year plus two weeks from that first kiss we kissed at the altar in our wedding service, experienced a double-virgin wedding night, eventually raised 3 kids (and buried one), went through job losses and medical emergencies and car crashes and breast cancer and are still kissing, almost 40 years after that first kiss. That memorable, uncertain, VERY REAL kiss!

[Queenie42]

Once you've had the first kiss of your life, it becomes less about the kiss itself and more about the person you're kissing.

 

You are so wise I know this is true from a data set of only three.

 

First guy, first ever kiss, I'd had a crush on him for yonks, and he snuck up on me at a party: "Ermahgerd this is so amazing! I've decided I love kissing and want to do it all the time yaaaaaaaaay!"

 

Second guy was practically a stranger to me: "Hooray, somebody is actually interested in me!" <---BIG problem with my mindset at that time. My encounter with this dude made me realise how out of whack my whole outlook had become. If you find yourself enjoying a kiss for the wrong reasons, it's time to take a step back.

 

Third guy is my beloved Boyfriend: "Wow... just wow." He blew my mind with that first kiss, and since then I've been totally addicted to him (or as we Aussies sing, hopelessly devoted ).