Ed the 3rd Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 Okay this is a new one for me lol. Despite my endless bashing of OLD right before I was about to pack it in I met a girl who honestly sounds way way to good to be true. Got her number, meeting up this week but on top of the fact she seems too unbelievably good to be true I can't help but feel slightly intimidated by her lifestyle. She appears to be one of those "never a dull day" types who'd rather be outside doing stuff then spending all day on a laptop. Don't get me wrong I absolutely love that but that unfortunately isn't me. I'm a city boy who moved to the country and while I'd love to engage in outdoor activities money is very tight for me atm and transportation is non existent. Don't get me wrong I do as much as I can but I do get days where my circumstances leave me in this room with this machine and nothing else to do until tomorrow. Do you guys think this will be a problem. I can't imagine how it could be a deal breaker but its still in the back of my mind. I guess I'm fearful of appearing boring.
Treasa Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 Go for it, have fun with her, and enjoy the things she likes to do. If you also like them, she'll be good for getting you closer to those activities. Also, drop the notion that someone is too good for you, especially if you hardly know them and don't have any strong evidence to back it up. 2
MidwestUSA Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 If I'm reading right, you haven't met her yet. You have no idea if she has "inflated " her lifestyle to impress others. You know what they say about "too good to be true"; go out once and find out. You may be pleasantly surprised, or deeply disappointed. Don't put yourself down or put her on a pedestal; take one chance! 1
Author Ed the 3rd Posted June 10, 2013 Author Posted June 10, 2013 Just want to clarify when I said "way to good to be true" I was more focused on the fact I actually met a good looking and interesting girl on OLD. I still hold the belief OLD terrible for the most part but I'm surprised I got any results from it. I'm certainly not putting anyone (especially someone I haven't met) on a pedestal. While she may very well be exaggerating her lifestyle I don't see any reason why she would lie. She lives near the country and has access to these things. If I had the means to do that kind of stuff regularly I certainly would. Its not highly extravagant just quite a bit more active then me.
MidwestUSA Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 Just want to clarify when I said "way to good to be true" I was more focused on the fact I actually met a good looking and interesting girl on OLD. I still hold the belief OLD terrible for the most part but I'm surprised I got any results from it. I'm certainly not putting anyone (especially someone I haven't met) on a pedestal. While she may very well be exaggerating her lifestyle I don't see any reason why she would lie. She lives near the country and has access to these things. If I had the means to do that kind of stuff regularly I certainly would. Its not highly extravagant just quite a bit more active then me. Of course there are good looking, interesting girls on OLD! I was one of them So, it sounds good, like someone you could have fun with, go! Don't let preconceived notions about OLD or your prior experiences deter you.
Author Ed the 3rd Posted June 10, 2013 Author Posted June 10, 2013 Not worth creating a new thread over but apparently she seems to of broken up with her ex a month or so ago. Can I go into this and actually expect results? I'm going out with her regardless but it would be nice to know I'm not being on the end of silly games.
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