Usually I'm pretty good at reading things, but is she still interested? Mixed signals

[Alltheabove1212]

If anyone could please help, I'm pretty confused. And usually I'm great at reading the situation. This is a short background of what has happened:

 

 

Anyway we were flirting a lot in text and eventually I said we should get together. She was asking what we could do and I made a few suggestions, but admitted I don't know much around her town.She said "Hmm okay I'll have to think of something! :)"

 

This was her birthday weekend, so I understand if there wouldn't be set plans. But we planned to do something Sunday.

 

I texted her once on Friday saying something like "here's a kiss since I'm not there" with a kiss emoji. I've done this before. And she said "hahaha thanks mister!" <--normal.

 

I didn't text her Saturday. Sunday came and I asked if she still wanted to hang out. She said they had gotten too drunk on Saturday so they couldn't drive home and she was still at the beach.

 

I said "ahh sad face haha. Maybe another time"

 

She said "I'm sorry (my name) :/ I suck."

 

I didn't respond and she texted me later that night:

 

"Hey bud! Did you have a good weekend partying it up?"

 

I was still pissed about earlier but I responded an hour later with something generic and she didn't respond back.

 

 

--I have hooked up with her at least 3 times before like in my background at the top. She was worried all I wanted was physical stuff. We flirt sexually all the time and she seems interested. But not sure what's up now?

 

Also the "bud" part bothered me.

 

Any idea what's up?!

Edited June 10, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[Sunshine87]

Haha, the dreaded term "bud" or "buddy" lol.

 

Don't contact her a week and she what happens. If she contacts you, don't suggest a meet up until a week. If she doesn't contact you, call her after a week to set something up.

 

Take it from there.

[Ordinaryday]

You've answered your own question, the 'bud' seals it. Girls I've been interested in have done the same thing, even though YOU ALREADY KNOW THIS I will spell it out for you: for whatever reason she has changed her mind and no longer considers you date boyfriend material. She is trying to save face and embarrassing you, by dropping obvious hints like 'bud', hoping that you will get the hint and back off, to save her the pain and hassle of outright rejecting you. When a girl calls a guy 'bud' or 'a good friend' or 'mate', make n mistakes SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE'S DOING, she's sending you a hint that you will never have sex with her. Take the hint and leave her alone. If she continues to contact you send her a simple message like 'I thought there was something between us, if there isn't please leave me alone'. It's done, 'bud' is the kiss of death