KJBedoe Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 So, I've been dating this guy for about a month now. He calls me everyday, even when he's busy. On top of talking to him on the phone every day, we see each other at least twice a week. This was mainly because he was in school and busy. He drives and I don't, so it made it difficult to see him more. When I don't pick up the phone, he leaves me voicemails most of the time. Honestly, it's the cutest thing. When we're with each other, we basically act like a couple. He's very affectionate. We hold hands, he kisses my forehead, my hand, my lips, and even calls me babe. This last weekend he was out of town and he called me, but I didn't answer because I was at a wedding. He left me this voicemail explaining why he hasn't gotten back to me and apologized. Then he told me, he was going to go out that night for a friend's birthday. Later, I called him. He didn't pick up cause he was busy. Then I decided to send him a picture of me in the dress I wore to the wedding. With that picture, I texted him saying "I hope you're having a good night ." He texted back and said, "...jerk move." He's a sarcastic guy, so that was kind of his way of saying, "You look good and I wish I could see you." When I got home, I decided to call him back. We talked on the phone for a bit. At the end of the conversation he goes, "What are you doing this week because I want to talk to you?" Of course, as a girl, the first thing I thought of when he said those words was, "OMG he's gonna break it off!" So, I was freaking out. I was like, "You want to talk? What? That usually means..." He laughed and said, "You don't even know what I'm going to tell you and it's not bad." He eventually had to go because he was meeting friends. So, he tells me in a sarcastic/joking manner, "I'm just going to let you think about this tonight." With all that said, I am wondering, what is he going to tell me? I'm a little worried
drr6 Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 That he is doing a very good job of keeping you on your tippy toes and attracted to him. The upcoming talk will be fine. Just watch out that you don't fall too head over heals out of control.
todreaminblue Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 he said it isnt bad.......dontcha worry...smilin atcha......pssst ...i would worry too......lol...but dont ...you will be fine .......best wishes...deb
Ninjainpajamas Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 I wouldn't worry too much about it, the guy seems into you and he's been pursuing you pretty hard...assuming you're giving up the vagina and he's still sticking around...at one month that is good news and he's still keeping in contact instead of ignoring you and putting you on the backburner. But it's only one month in, hard to tell and say and this whole part... "When we're with each other, we basically act like a couple. He's very affectionate. We hold hands, he kisses my forehead, my hand, my lips, and even calls me babe." Means absolutely nothing in terms of whether this is going somewhere or not alone, it's more of the fact he's taking time to contact you while out with friends and when he could easily ignore you for the night when he's busy with friends or what not...he still makes an effort to talk to you...but like I said, at one month, so what...especially if he's young, inexperienced and insecure...that just means he feels he has to do this to keep you the line. However it doesn't sound like bad news, if not good news...maybe even very good news. So stop being a paranoid, insecure mess imagining the worse..don't let your abandonment issues kick in now so early...plus guys can smell that a mile away and will use you over it, always play it cool and keep your emotions and thoughts in check this early on in the dating game...nothing is guaranteed no matter how many little signs you will to read into that he really likes you...you still know absolutely nothing about this guy and his true character...this is all just the infatuation period, not real emotions.
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