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Okay so I'll make a long story short. I liked this girl (a lot) for 3 years and I finally told her 2 weeks ago. She was really nice about it. We weren't really close before I told her but now we talk more. 4 days ago I asked her if she wanted to study for the finals with me. She "saw" the message but replied like a day later saying that shes thinking of a day that would be good. Last night, while talking to her on fb I said, "if youre still down to study would you prefer a weekend or a weekday?" She didn't reply but saw the message an hour after I sent it. It's a day later and she still hasn't replied but is online right now. WHAT SHOULD I SAY? Should I even say anything like, "i think my messages arent sending" or something? HELP

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Back off.

You put the offer out there. She hasn't accepted so far - for any number of reasons - and repeating the same offer over and over will be counter-productive on all levels.

 

Forget about the whole final studying topic and carry on with other interactions and conversations. But realize that she may just not be into dating you now for whatever reason.

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Back off right now. You're coming off too pushy. Let her come to you

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