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I've been in a very physical relationship with this guy for about 6 months (he's 45, I'm in my 30's)

Very difficult relationship, lots of NC periods, and a divorce in between.

I think of him all the time, yet he's emotionally unavailable because he has suffered a lot in previous relationships. He said he cared for me, but he can't need me because that will mean he would give me his hearth and he doesn't allow him to do that. Weird, I know...Anyway...we see each other every week, and everything is just perfect.

 

Yesterday he sent me a text, he wanted to see me. He asked me when it'd good, and I answered Monday! (for tomorrow). He then said he'd have to check reall quick if he can meet me, but I was too tired (1 am) and I said to him I was going to sleep, that he lets me know if I could see him tomorrow. He texted OK! and I went to sleep.

 

My question is, in case he wont contact me today to confirm (the most probable think, knowing him!) what should I say to him? Or just nothing?

I know this sounds like a first date, and it's been already 6 months, but it's like this...

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Don't date a man who has been divorced less than two years. It will just end badly. Even now you can tell things are not going well with this guy.

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Hi! Its me who got the divorce, not him.

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