Author knopfler1 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 New updates I saw her today, we went to the movies and all the time she called me my love, during the movie we holded hands most of the time, we had a good time but this is what concerns me, when I brought her to her house we said goodby and she kissed me in the mouth and then she said this: You must thing I'm crazy because I kiss you very often and I say my love to you all the time, I didn't responded anything. At the end she said I am her prince. So analyzing her words we are not together officially, I don't know what to do, should I keep it cool and see where this goes or should I put her an ultimatum and ask her directly what does she want?. Any ideas?
Author knopfler1 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 Dude, get with the program. which program?
Stay Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 (edited) which program? Her program! YOU! SNAP OUT OF IT! Obviously she wants to try again. Like TaraMaiden said up there.. say that exact thing! We shouldn't need to tell you exactly what to do, sometimes you just gotta do what you feel like and this is the time. ASK HER! She is giving you strong signals, act on it. You gotta think for yourself sometimes and know what's good to do in your life. You won't always have someone to guide you and I think that's what you gotta learn when you get back into the relationship also. Don't overthink it, just do what you feel is right.. Sometimes your gut feeling is the best one. Edited June 14, 2013 by Stay
Author knopfler1 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 Her program! YOU! SNAP OUT OF IT! Obviously she wants to try again. Like TaraMaiden said up there.. say that exact thing! We shouldn't need to tell you exactly what to do, sometimes you just gotta do what you feel like and this is the time. ASK HER! She is giving you strong signals, act on it. You gotta think for yourself sometimes and know what's good to do in your life. You won't always have someone to guide you and I think that's what you gotta learn when you get back into the relationship also. Don't overthink it, just do what you feel is right.. Sometimes your gut feeling is the best one. So you think she has gave strong signs?, but Im just wondering why hasn't she mentioned something about getting back together.
Stay Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 So you think she has gave strong signs?, but Im just wondering why hasn't she mentioned something about getting back together. Personally I think these are very strong, although she didn't say it yet she might not know how to so instead she's trying to have you initiate it. One of you have to take the plunge right? She's probably sitting there going through the same thing you are right now, maybe she's waiting for you to take the plunge and ask. She's trowing all these strong signs and maybe she's confused on why you're not mentioning anything about getting back.
Author knopfler1 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 Personally I think these are very strong, although she didn't say it yet she might not know how to so instead she's trying to have you initiate it. One of you have to take the plunge right? She's probably sitting there going through the same thing you are right now, maybe she's waiting for you to take the plunge and ask. She's trowing all these strong signs and maybe she's confused on why you're not mentioning anything about getting back. Exactly, my mom told me the same as you, that she is probably waiting that I mention something about getting back together. She has given clear signs: holding hands, kissing me, hugging me, telling me sweetheart, my love etc. Im thinking in waiting maybe 2 or 3 weeks to before I mention the topic of the relationship, maybe this way I will make her desperate and make her appreciate me more
Simon Phoenix Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Jesus Christ dude, she's giving you the green light and you are sitting here mindf--king yourself. Sometimes you got to grip it and rip it. If you make a woman wait too long she'll eventually get bored and stop waiting.
Author knopfler1 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 Jesus Christ dude, she's giving you the green light and you are sitting here mindf--king yourself. Sometimes you got to grip it and rip it. If you make a woman wait too long she'll eventually get bored and stop waiting. Do you think she is really giving green lights?, but what if she just wants to be friends with benefits?
Simon Phoenix Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Do you think she is really giving green lights?, but what if she just wants to be friends with benefits? Why don't you just ask?
Author knopfler1 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 Why don't you just ask? I was thinking in waiting some time before asking her about what does she want with me, this way I would not look needy in her eyes. And if she truly wants to get back together she will mention the topic. What do you think?
Author knopfler1 Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 (edited) My girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago, when she broke up with me, at first she didn't wanted to be friends but then she was the one who wanted friendship, we've been hanging out this two months as friends but there are mixed signals: On Monday this is what happened We went to the movies, after seeing the movie I took her home and on the journey she started to kiss my hand on the car while I was driving, then she stared looking at me deeply while I was driving, after this she ended up kissing me in the cheeks and in my mouth so I corresponded kissing her too and hugging her. We kissed and hugged in the car many times and she started to call me as she used to: she said: Sweetheart, my love, etc. She made me hug her in the car and started to tell that I'm her prince. I kissed her in the mouth and she let me do it. At the end I brought her home and we say goodbye with a kiss in the mouth. On thursday this is what happened We went to the movies again and all the time she called me my love, during the movie we holded hands most of the time, we had a good time but this is what concerns me, when I brought her to her house we said goodbye and she kissed me in the mouth and then she said this: You must thing I'm crazy because I kiss you very often and I say my love to you all the time, I didn't responded anything. At the end she said I am her prince. So analyzing her words we are not together officially, I don't know what to do, should I keep it cool and see where this goes or should I put her an ultimatum and ask her directly what does she want?. Any ideas? Edited June 15, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Author knopfler1 Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 Today we went to the movies again and she holded hands during the movie and in the car and she hugged me a few times. When I picked up her at work she said hello to me with a kiss in the mouth and when I took her back home at the end of the movie she gave me a kiss in the cheek. I don't know what does she want
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