knopfler1 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 (edited) My girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago, when she broke up with me she didn't wanted to be friends but now she is the one who wants friendship but there are mixed signals: -When Im with her she starts to touch my face and hair and she looks to me very deeply -She said to me that being friends could be dangerous because there is still attraction between us -I am going to make a piano concert soon and she wants to come, she always insists on that. I also play tennis and I recently won a tournament in my club and she got angry that I didn't invited her to se me play the final -She flirts a little telling me that I have a deep voice and that i look very good -She sends me messages wishing me a good day etc So what is all this?, is there hope? or she is just playing? Edited June 9, 2013 by knopfler1
W.E Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 She probably had someone else in mind when she broke up with you, but now that that didn't work out she is coming back to you . . . until she finds someone else.
totallylost5040 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 whoa, those are signs that she should want you back, but you'll never know until you ask.... but the flirtation and the touch.... means a lot.
GG3 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 whoa, those are signs that she should want you back, but you'll never know until you ask.... but the flirtation and the touch.... means a lot. yeah. You can analyze it to death and never know until you finally make a move. Unfortunately love is a risk. Make a move and find out so you can move on one way or another. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 She probably had someone else in mind when she broke up with you, but now that that didn't work out she is coming back to you . . . until she finds someone else. I think there's a lot of truth to this. That being said, next time she flirts, you need to escalate.
Author knopfler1 Posted June 9, 2013 Author Posted June 9, 2013 I think there's a lot of truth to this. That being said, next time she flirts, you need to escalate. How do I escalate?, asking her what she wants or trying to kiss her?
Simon Phoenix Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 How do I escalate?, asking her what she wants or trying to kiss her? The latter. Don't ask, do. When she flirts, flirt back. She touches your elbow, you touch her arm. She touches your chest, you grab her by the waist. Either a) you'll make progress or b) you'll know that she's throwing you massive breadcrumbs that you can ignore.
Author knopfler1 Posted June 11, 2013 Author Posted June 11, 2013 (edited) Well today happened something unexpected, my ex and I went to the movies, after seeing the movie I took her home and on the journey she started to kiss my hand on the car while I was driving, then she stared looking at me deeply while I was driving, after this she ended up kissing me in the cheeks and in my mouth so I corresponded kissing her too and hugging her. We kissed and hugged in the car many times and she started to call me as she used to: she said: Sweetheart, my love, etc. She made me hug her in the car and started to tell that I'm her prince. I kissed her in the mouth and she let me do it. At the end I brought her home and we say goodbye with a kiss in the mouth. Are these good signs that we will get back together? Edited June 11, 2013 by knopfler1
aisuru Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 Yeah... I think you need to just ask her. "hey princess, your prince is feeling something. do you feel it too?" or something. better than wondering!
Author knopfler1 Posted June 11, 2013 Author Posted June 11, 2013 So what would be better?, to ask her what does she want with me or just don't say anything and let things flow?
Author knopfler1 Posted June 11, 2013 Author Posted June 11, 2013 So it would be better to let things flow and not mention anything about our previous relationship until she mentions it?
Simon Phoenix Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 Just relax and go with the flow. With the amount of overthinking you are doing you are just going to sabotage it. Just take a few breaths and take it as it comes.
marqueemoon4 Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 Good luck man. Sounds promising.. just take it slowwwww
Author knopfler1 Posted June 11, 2013 Author Posted June 11, 2013 Here is the dilemma, I was thinking in telling her what does she want or the other option is not to tell her anything and just let things happen. What option do you think would be best?
Simon Phoenix Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 Here is the dilemma, I was thinking in telling her what does she want or the other option is not to tell her anything and just let things happen. What option do you think would be best? Take a deep breath and relax first. I mean dude, you are wound up pretty tight right now. Whatever approach you take will suck if you continue to be so tense. I would just let it happen, but dude, take five minutes and settle down. 1
totallylost5040 Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 Ask her out on a date and romance her. If she says yes. You are on the right track. I'd like to know more backstory!
Author knopfler1 Posted June 12, 2013 Author Posted June 12, 2013 (edited) Ask her out on a date and romance her. If she says yes. You are on the right track. I'd like to know more backstory! Would it be better to avoid mentioning anything about the relationship and take things slow or should I just ask her what does she want?. On Monday we went to see a movie and in the car she couldn't rest and started to kiss me a lot in the cheeks and the mouth, she also hugged me and started to tell me all the things she said to me when we were a couple: sweetheart, honey, my love. So Im confused with all of this Edited June 12, 2013 by knopfler1
totallylost5040 Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 Again, like I said. Ask her out on a date, romance her, if she agrees and continues, you may find your answer.
Author knopfler1 Posted June 12, 2013 Author Posted June 12, 2013 What does romance her mean??, be flirty?
TaraMaiden Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 I'm sorry.... Are we not getting through to you?? Will you quit asking dumb questions?? Next time you see her - tell her! "I'm ready to be an item again! You and me we're in love, let's make up not break up! What do you say??" And see what she replies!
mahon451 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 (edited) Hot damn. You are experiencing what many of us only dream about, dudebro. DON'T F**K IT UP. My advice on how to NOT f**k it up is to do what everyone else is saying: take it slow, don't overthink, and just let it happen. It's obvious she wants you back, so there is absolutely no need to drive yourself mad with indecision. That having been said, don't wait too long to find out what's up... and don't beat around the bush about it either. Ask her directly if she's interested in rekindling things. Edited June 13, 2013 by mahon451
Author knopfler1 Posted June 13, 2013 Author Posted June 13, 2013 (edited) Hot damn. You are experiencing what many of us only dream about, dudebro. DON'T F**K IT UP. My advice on how to NOT f**k it up is to do what everyone else is saying: take it slow, don't overthink, and just let it happen. It's obvious she wants you back, so there is absolutely no need to drive yourself mad with indecision. That having been said, don't wait too long to find out what's up... and don't beat around the bush about it either. Ask her directly if she's interested in rekindling things. Tomorrow she wants to hang out with me again!, I will act cool and flirty like last time. Lets she if she kisses me again or initiates physical contact. Ill try to let things just happen. Ill tell you how this goes Edited June 13, 2013 by knopfler1 1
totallylost5040 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 What's the backstory on this?? It might give more reason to what she's doing.
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