TaylorHampton Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 My ex boyfriend is getting married soon. I'm still in love with him. He never really officially ended things with me, we just started talking less and less throughout these past few months. I'm so heartbroken! I don't know what to do. I cry about it everyday.
Balzac Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 He never really officially ended things with me... This statement says more about you than I think you realize. 1
SuperGeek Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 It's unfortunate news no doubt. You are no longer 'hanging'. You have closure now. Time to move on. No contact is a must so you can heal. I'm sorry it hurts, but it will get better with time. 1
Balzac Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 That's saying that you'll wait beyond reasonable limits for a another person so define your personal boundaries and life goals. How long are you willing to wait for service that's not forthcoming in professional settings?
Nyla Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 There is no sense in torturing yourself over this situation. Your ex has moved on and you need to as well. Go NC and find things to occupy your time. Find a counselor and start keeping a journal. I am haunted by being emotionally and sexually abused by two exes. I try not to beat myself up about those things and realize that I have a great man now.
Author TaylorHampton Posted June 9, 2013 Author Posted June 9, 2013 We were together for about seven months before he started to become distant. But now He'll call or text at least once a week to say hey or he misses me, but it's just giving me false hope.
Balzac Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Why would you choose to rekindle a relationship w a man about to be married to another woman, yet texts with you weekly about missing you?
veggirl Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Are you sure you were his gf? You've only been broken up a few months and he is getting married? to who? How long has he known her? Sure you weren't his side piece? 3
Author TaylorHampton Posted June 9, 2013 Author Posted June 9, 2013 You all are right! He's chose who he wants to be with. I have no choice but to move on
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