Cfb770099 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 A guy used to flirt with me. Now he seems to have stopped and I haven´t heard from him for a couple of weeks. Has he lost interest already or has he given up? Can a guy loose interest because he does´t get any positive sign from the girl? If so, How do I show him I want his interest back?
Emilia Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 If you are interested in him you should mix in conversations with more substance to build a connection with him, flirting itself doesn't last for long without having something else to back it up. If you are just looking for external validation and don't care about him then move on to your next victim. 2
phineas Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 If you are interested in him you should mix in conversations with more substance to build a connection with him, flirting itself doesn't last for long without having something else to back it up. If you are just looking for external validation and don't care about him then move on to your next victim. Yep. Not going to keep wasting time & energy flirting with a woman when there is no pay-off in site. Got other women / better things to do. 2
StanMusial Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 A guy used to flirt with me. Now he seems to have stopped and I haven´t heard from him for a couple of weeks. Has he lost interest already or has he given up? Can a guy loose interest because he does´t get any positive sign from the girl? If so, How do I show him I want his interest back? Yes, it is a two way street. If you give him nothing to work with, he's going to move on to someone else or just stop wasting his time. I mean, I could sit here and talk to the wall but that would get boring pretty quick right? Why do you want him to flirt with you anyway? Do you want to go out with him?
sweetheart5381 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 For future reference, 2 words - "flirt back" if you are interested. Guys don't want to do all the work, nor should they have to. Men are scared of rejection too. Yes they like the chase, but you really need to give them clues, they can't read minds. For now, you are in the friend-zone, or completely off the radar so now YOU have to risk rejection if he doesn't respond to your advances. If you want this guy, you better dig deep and take a few risks. 1
hppr Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 He flirted with you, nothing happened, therefore he stopped. Not hard to figure out. If you want to re-gain his interest you need to go after him, plain and simple.
Author Cfb770099 Posted June 9, 2013 Author Posted June 9, 2013 (edited) Ok thanks, I guess the whole problem boils down to me being very bad at "flirting back", cause this has happened more than one time No matter how much I think I´m flirting and being nice, the message never seems to come across! Edited June 9, 2013 by Cfb770099
Emilia Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 Ok thanks, I guess the whole problem boils down to me being very bad at "flirting back", cause this has happened more than one time No matter how much I think I´m flirting and being nice, the message never seems to come across! This is why you need to build a connection. Get to know the person, let him get to know you. It is a skill and it takes practice.
Sunshine87 Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 If you are interested in him you should mix in conversations with more substance to build a connection with him, flirting itself doesn't last for long without having something else to back it up. If you are just looking for external validation and don't care about him then move on to your next victim. Lmao @ move on to your next victim. Ditto.
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