Maffy18 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 (edited) Hi guys, ill try make this as short as I can. Basically, my girlfriend of 8 months broke up with me about a month ago, she did it whilst my mum was in hospital and right in the middle of my school exams which wasn't very fair and she didn't time it well. Anyway I was absolutely heartbroken as I love her dearly, and to make matters worse a few days after she dumped me she was at a party and got very drink and ended up kissing another guy, there is nothing between them I am sure of this it was just a drunken mistake. Anyway, a few days after this she called me in tears and told me she had kissed this guy and I went ape ****, I was so angry and full of rage and just said listen I am done, totally. As I had been begging her to take me back. After this I had got into a good mental area an I was beginning to feel like what happened was done etc u until she phones me in the most upset way I have ever heard her and begs for me back, I said I don't know if I could forget everything she did to me and get back eith her but I had to go round to her house to get some of my clothes back. When I did this, she was so upset and said that she had made such a big mistake and that there was things going on in her life when she dumped me which caused her to react badly and end it with me out of panic. I ended up in tears as well as I told her how much she hurt me, i tried NC and everything but nothin worked. I still love her dearly, I have done evrything a guy of my age could do for this girl, I'm 18 by the way, eventually I ended up kissing her and we agreed to forgive each other an try and again. She wrote me a huge love letter, as I used to do this for her quite often and tho letter stated how sorry she was and That she loves me immensely and that I am "the most perfect boyfriend a girl could have" and that she is so lucky to have me. I loved this and I thought things would go back to normal or even get better. This is where it gets weird though. Over tha past week she has been acting totally out of character, she is ignoring me attempts to contact her, making up lies as to why she can't see me a certain day rather than just telling me the truth, she is trying anything to avoid spending time with me and saying she is busy, and when I tell her i love her she totally ignores it: for example I said "see you soon, I love you." She responds with "see you later" this frying me brain as she wrote me that huge love letter like wtf. She is going in a school trip to Africa for a month in a week and I won't see her before she goes as she is busy preparing, i went to see her yesterday and she moved away when I truest to kiss her at first and she rushed me out the door and gave me a brief hug and kiss, bearing in mind this will be the last time I see her for at least a month. I said I love you have fun goodbye and she's says thank you see you later. What the hell!? Someone help me please this is frying me brain and getting me down. Also, she said that this time apart will actually do us good as I can't contact her in that time, what are your thoughts on this? I think it could either make or break it. Edited June 9, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
TaraMaiden Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 She's not your girlfriend. She's your ex. And you have to absolutely go complete No Contact. Please, just read the thread. All of it. The guide is the first post, but the remaining thread is very important. It's in my signature (link) item 2. Read it now, before you do, say or think anything else.
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