church9832 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Hey all, back again I need some advice because I really don't want to screw up initating with this girl, don't want it to lead to friendZoning. The only way I can communicate with her is through fb and only started talking to her today. I've started with some sneaky things such as complementing on her fashion sense (which I actually like her modesty), then it lead to her finding a job and then her future plans and stuff They way I want is I'm not carrying the conversation all the time any advice? Thanks
USMCHokie Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 How did you meet? Do you have mutual friends? Do you have any occasion to see her off FB?
Author church9832 Posted June 9, 2013 Author Posted June 9, 2013 How did you meet? Do you have mutual friends? Do you have any occasion to see her off FB? We meet in 2008, randomly at a university event by our schools. This was when we were in high school. We have some mutual friends If our mutual friends meet up together, I would probs go with them. You think I should get my mutual friend who I am abit close with to help me or I should do it on my own without anyone knowing?
USMCHokie Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 We meet in 2008, randomly at a university event by our schools. This was when we were in high school. Have you had any contact with her since then or seen her outside of FB? Next question...why are you interested in her after all this time...? And what's your current correspondence like...?
Author church9832 Posted June 9, 2013 Author Posted June 9, 2013 Yah we contacted each other in between sometimes I always have been interested but as life went on (5 years of it) I have dates others. Right now I'm feel, why not give it a shot with her but first I must get to know her again Her maturity is what made me make the decision:)
USMCHokie Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Yah we contacted each other in between sometimes I always have been interested but as life went on (5 years of it) I have dates others. Right now I'm feel, why not give it a shot with her but first I must get to know her again Her maturity is what made me make the decision:) If she has initiated contact with you at times, then you should casually suggest getting together sometime. Plan an activity and then invite her to join you. However, if you find that you are always the one initiating FB messaging and she only merely responds to you, then I'd be less inclined to pursue this, as her interest is probably nothing more than platonic and courteous.
Author church9832 Posted June 9, 2013 Author Posted June 9, 2013 If she has initiated contact with you at times, then you should casually suggest getting together sometime. Plan an activity and then invite her to join you. However, if you find that you are always the one initiating FB messaging and she only merely responds to you, then I'd be less inclined to pursue this, as her interest is probably nothing more than platonic and courteous. She has a long time ago when we were younger. But she has a lot of things on her plate ATM
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