Ordinaryday Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 I just got a message from a girl I had been speaking to on facebook, in which she said she has a free ticket to some show on later in the week, and since she knows I am interested in it, would I like to go with her. I know it is so easy to say "oh wow, it is a date" but nope, I have made this mistake before. in the past girls have invited me out with them to a concert or whatever, and I take it to mean it is a date, and then when I make a move they are all like "hey come on, I MEANT WE ARE JUST GOING OUT AS FRIENDS". talk about mixed signals. I am not really interested in being led on with a "just friends" thing and if all she wants is friendship I'd rather not, since it just leads to being hurt. but if she is interested in more, then sure why not! So, any tips on whether a girl asking if you would like to go to a show with her is a "date date" or a "just friends date"?
InsaneTrombone Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Before you put your foot in your mouth by making a move, try just straight up asking her like you are asking us. If it's a date, great. If it's not, at least you know what you're getting into.
Kamille Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Go and find out. Go to concert. Have fun. See if you click. And if you do, make a move. Because let's face it. Everyone can face the kind little hurt you'd feel if she rejected you (unless they're raging egomaniacs). And you going doesn't mean you have to be friends forever. And, hey, you get a free concert. 1
USMCHokie Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Go to concert. Have fun. See if you click. And if you do, make a move. This is it. Zero expectations. Show her a good time and get to know her. The rest will just happen as it comes.
starrynightz45 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Ehhhh. Honestly I can see this going either way. Don't waste your time - just ask. If she was just asking you as friends, well then you'll know and won't go. If she is interested in something more, then she'll be RELIEVED that you asked and probably impressed. Then you know where you stand. 1
Casablanca Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 I just got a message from a girl I had been speaking to on facebook, in which she said she has a free ticket to some show on later in the week, and since she knows I am interested in it, would I like to go with her. I know it is so easy to say "oh wow, it is a date" but nope, I have made this mistake before. in the past girls have invited me out with them to a concert or whatever, and I take it to mean it is a date, and then when I make a move they are all like "hey come on, I MEANT WE ARE JUST GOING OUT AS FRIENDS". talk about mixed signals. I am not really interested in being led on with a "just friends" thing and if all she wants is friendship I'd rather not, since it just leads to being hurt. but if she is interested in more, then sure why not! So, any tips on whether a girl asking if you would like to go to a show with her is a "date date" or a "just friends date"? How interested are you in her? Honestly either way, I'd say go with no expectations, and get the experience of hanging out with a woman one on one.
musemaj11 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Just message her back and ask her playfully, "Is this gonna be a date or what? ;D" 1
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