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I don't mean to be insensitive more because am nursing my own heart hurt but how many posts we have here people together 5, years, 4, 8, 6, and then boom its over.

 

Why is that what happens if they were married would they have lasted ?

Am suffering for relationship much shorter then those god how much more awful would it be to be in place of some of those people.

 

Do people get bored of each other have they never been right for each other

Or its just something else ?

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I've been married for many years and am still happily married. I know many marriages that have lasted for many years and are still going strong. It doesn't have to get boring. There is a lot you can do to keep your marriage fulfilling.

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Every relationship ends for their own unique reasons, even though many of us have very similar situations.

 

Personally, we did not get bored of each other. We are both people who have personal issues that prevent us from being in healthy relationships with anyone; it was not that we got bored or stopped loving each other.

 

Love is not always enough if one or both people need to heal themselves individually, sadly. No amount of love will fix you. Self love will.

 

You will find on here, that sometimes love is not enough to save a relationship. Where as in a lot of other cases, yes, people do get bored, fall out of love, or realise they were never IN love to begin with.

 

Whatever the reason is still hurts.

 

The fact you were not in a long relationship does not mean the pain is less. Although, personally, the time I spent with my ex every single day for over two years, was enough to leave such a mark on my life that I REALLY notice it now that they are not in my daily life.

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You both ladies are right but as I said what am seeing here is less relationships that where short got broken and more that lasted really for years are.

Take a look yourselves and you will see what I mean

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Both my parents get just as thrilled and happy to hear from each other, even after 35 years.

 

I am sure KathyM feels the same way about her husband.

 

I mean, look at Rhianna and Chris Brown. I am SURE they were very excited the entire time together, yet he had terrible personal issues that made him do what he did to her. It was probably not down to bring bored or lack of love (since they are indeed back together!)

 

You see women on here all the time who are terribly distraught over short lived relationships!

 

That teaches us to not get too invested too early on in the relationship. As boring as it sounds, the guy has to prove himself and there needs to be stability in the relationship before you give it everything.

 

I will steer clear of those relationships where both people dive in so fast. Plenty of time to build trust, before placing so much importance on them.

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