HeartBrokenn Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Can you date a girl, who have a great personality, but you are only 70% attracted to? What if another prettier girl came along later on in the relationship, with the same personality? Would you leave her for the other girl?
StanMusial Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Can you date a girl, who have a great personality, but you are only 70% attracted to? What if another prettier girl came along later on in the relationship, with the same personality? Would you leave her for the other girl? It is 100% guaranteed that there will be someone prettier. It is 100% certain that no two people have the exact same personality. Lastly, I don't understand 70% attracted. Personally I'm either attracted or I'm not. 2
ltjg45 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Can you date a girl, who have a great personality, but you are only 70% attracted to? What if another prettier girl came along later on in the relationship, with the same personality? Would you leave her for the other girl? Date her? Yeah. Actually be in a relationship with her? That depends and that isn't based on whether or not someone prettier shows up. To me, it's not the personality I'm looking for the most in a woman anymore (that can be overrated as well). It's whether or not she is willing to stick with the relationship in the long run and just jump off the ship the first chance she gets. That is what I'm concerned with the most. It doesn't take much before I'm emotionally invested in a woman. 1
Ninjainpajamas Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 A guy can "date" (casual sex) anyone or anything he has options to and generally speaking always will at some point. However, for a relationship? you're asking a completely separate question for men, and for men "great personality" doesn't make up for lack of physical attraction in the majority of cases. He has to find you fairly attractive to his taste, it doesn't mean you have to be a beauty queen or anything, sometimes women are beautiful and even then still not our taste or gives guys the wow factor. So stop thinking like a girl and comparing yourself from your own insecure eyes, personality doesn't even matter to guys unless you pass the attractiveness test...not to mention many women overrate themselves in this category and think they're so awesome, there's a lot of interesting and "awesome" women out there, that's not the point. Guys are looking for the "total package" to have a real relationship with someone, unless you're extremely attractive to him of course. It doesn't sound like this guy is into you at all very much...I'm sure he'd sleep with you, that goes without saying for men...he might even date you or take you out sometimes, hell if he's desperate enough and you're the best he can do for right now he'll even have a relationship with you if you press for it and if that's what he needs to do to gain access to the vagina...but if the guy isn't satisfied with you on a whole, it won't even take a "prettier" girl to come along to pull him away from you...women are often confused thinking that's what guys do...like if they just say "oh she's prettier so I'll be with that one now" when that's your own damn insecurity...chances are the idiot won't even have access to that girl in the first place, and secondly if he's unhappy or dissatisfied it's irrelevant whether she's prettier or not, the fact that she's someone new or different would be enough. It doesn't take much for men to stray, they're often dating and having relationships with women they think they can do better than.
fortyninethousand322 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Can you date a girl, who have a great personality, but you are only 70% attracted to? What if another prettier girl came along later on in the relationship, with the same personality? Would you leave her for the other girl? How do you tell what the percentage is? I have never in my life considered myself "70% attracted to" a girl. It was pretty much like a light switch, it's either on or off.
Casablanca Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 It is 100% guaranteed that there will be someone prettier. It is 100% certain that no two people have the exact same personality. Lastly, I don't understand 70% attracted. Personally I'm either attracted or I'm not. Maybe he rates her a 7/10...dunno You are right that there will always be someone prettier, but if are attracted to her physically and she has a great personality and you all get along great, that is all that matters...looks will always fade, but conversation and personality won't if you're with the right person
sillyanswer Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Can you date a girl, who have a great personality, but you are only 70% attracted to? I think you've done the math wrong and it's only 69%, which is a much better number anyway. What if another prettier girl came along later on in the relationship, with the same personality? Would you leave her for the other girl? The odds of finding someone with the same personality are vanishingly small. The odds of finding a prettier girl are almost a certainty. So, it's hypothetical. Sure, some people "trade up". It would depend how happy I was in the relationship
hppr Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 Can you date a girl, who have a great personality, but you are only 70% attracted to? What if another prettier girl came along later on in the relationship, with the same personality? Would you leave her for the other girl? First off for most guys it's not an attraction scale. They can either enjoy having sex with her or they can't. So it's really yes/no with nothing in between. Second of all there's always a 'prettier girl/more handsome man' who, on the surface, may SEEM like they have a great personality too. Most guys won't leave a relationship solely for that reason though; guys leave relationships because there's no longer a reason for them to be in it.
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