ellaaaxoxo Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 any advice is greatly accepted.. well i was with my ex bf for 5 months but been best friends for a year. we went to different colleges which was hard but saw each other once a week. things were getting serious fast. i met his mom, he told me he thought about marriage with me, and cried many times with me. Keep in mind i was his first gf, first kiss, first everything so i had to deal with him not knowing what to say at times. well things were great til my last week at college where i was super busy with finals so we had no time to talk. distance was getting to us but we were happy to spend all summer together. then on my last day of classes we went out on a date and at the end he dumped me he told me the spark was lost and with us living an hour away it was going to get harder. i was devastated! i just left without any goodbye. a week later i texted him that im not angry but would like to remain friends which he agreed, then i made the mistake of telling him i miss him, he said he did too but we r just friends. we havnet spoken since!! it has now been a month since that last text. i dont know what to think!! I am def not reaching out to him because i want him to know what he missed but will he ever say something? could it just end like this? I was his first gf, i would expect him to try to relationship again. Do u guys think he just gave up or should i swallow my pride and reach out to him? please any advice or views on this relationship? thanks
Chris715 Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 I'm in almost the exact same situation as you except I'm a guy and my girlfriend broke up with me. Been about 5 months since the break up and about 3 weeks of NC for me now. I'd like to think there's a chance for both of us still, for a relationship, hell, even just for some communication with our ex's but I don't know. Just know you're not alone
Giha Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 No, I don't think you should contact him. Start moving on. If he ever texts you saying he wants to try again, then good. Anything other than that you need to ignore. 1
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