MelissaJ Posted October 9, 2004 Posted October 9, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=darkblue][/color] Hi about 3 weeks ago, me and my bf Josh split. We were together almost 3 years, never fought at all really, we were great. I took the relationship for granted and treated him more as a friend overall. We drifted apart without me realizing, and he left me. There was another girl in the picture at that point. HE says that he likes her, but doesnt have strong feeling and doesnt see it working. I took the breakup pretty hard, he was my first and I was his first, and I felt my life just crash and burn infront of me. I luckly had family to help me. Josh always kept in touch, he accually stayed over to keep me company the couple of days after it happened. We tried getting back together twice afterwards, but I'd question him and then we'd end up splitting, AGAIN. He said he needed time, and was confused, and I'm not very patient with things like this. I wanted to know NOW. Today I had to go to the Doctors Office, I was sick, still am. He came with me out of his own will (never asked) and stayed the whole time (2hrs) and then we talked again. He wanted to get back with me again. I said ok we could try, but I'm so scared to get hurt again, I'm afraid that when I talked to him again he'll change his mind, even though he said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, and get married. But I heard that last week too, then he left me again, because he wasnt sure again. What should I do? How do I get through this and trust him again? How do I feel comfortable in a relationship with him? HOw do I know if he will do this again to me? Can someone give me a hand? Thanks!!! Melissa
Merin Posted October 9, 2004 Posted October 9, 2004 Well Melissa, he doesn't have a real good track record.. It's unfortunate, but there are NO gaurantee's in life. Sometimes even when people have been together forever, and have so much history and time invested, life takes a turn and they split up.. no one saw it coming.. but it happens. If you really care about him and you want to try again.. then all you. Because he does seem to "spook" easily.. at this time I would relax on the discussions of marriage.. take one day at a time and see where it goes from there. Good Luck
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