Farside Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 I have posted a few times on this forum and it has been super helpful, so thank you! But this time I am writing to say that when people tell you everything happens for a reason they are right. It make take a while to see the reason, but its there. Let me explain how I know... A little background, my exBF and I were together close to 15 years. We were highschool sweethearts. He's 31 and I'm 32. We were living together for 6 years. We were having a bit of a rough summer, hit a bump in our relationship. I was having a rough time at work and being crabby at home. Well in September he asked me to leave our house. He said he needed time to evaluate if he could handle our relationship going up and down (relationships have that not sure what one doesn't) anyway I left. We talked for about a month on and off and in October he made a decision to break up with me. I had to go to our house and clean out all my things. Next few months were devastating of course. Now let's skip to a few days ago when I found out that back in August my wonderful exBF cheated on me. He slept with some bar trash that he barely knew. And here's the kicker, got her pregnant!!! They had the baby in May. There are more fun details, which at this point don't matter. The only thing that matters is I AM FREE!! I will never again have to deal with his **** (trust me there is a LONG list). So trust me when people tell you everything happens for a reason. Because it does! Getting dumped was the best thing that could have happened to me. 1
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 Indeed it does!!! Not only will you no longer have to worry about, or mis this idiot, but good old daddy now will have the next 18-21 years of child support! Because lets face it- his relationship is built on nothing, it ain't gonna last. Thank your stars its someone else and not YOU! Now go enjoy your summer! He won't. Lol
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