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I asked her to be my girlfriend on the influence of another person


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Last June 1, a friend asked me when I was with my current girlfriend why we weren't a couple yet. I said I was waiting for the right time. My girlfriend also asked me the same thing shortly after that and I said that I was waiting for the right time. She then told me some of the moments where I could have asked her to be my girlfriend then I was just left speechless. Then later than day we talked, then had a really good time. So I thought it was the time to ask her to be my girlfriend after 8 months. She did say yes and was really happy, but I did not think of the long term effect it would bring--the thought that I asked her to be my girlfriend because people influenced me to. She told me this 2 days ago and I felt crushed. Just like how a woman would like her wedding day to be very special to her, asking them to be your girlfriend is somewhat the same. I want to fix this stupid mistake I did by trying to do something special on our monthsary this coming June 14th. Since the moment I told her to become my girlfriend wasn't entirely my intentions alone, I am going to ask her to be my girlfriend for REAL this time, and entirely with only my intentions, and maybe I can heal the wound properly that might end up as a scar.

 

Thoughts anyone? I would like to hear what I could do if you guys have any better ideas. Thanks!

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Anyone :(?

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