Chris715 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Going on 6+ months since my ex-girlfriend dumped me, around 3 weeks of NC now, haven't heard a single thing from her. I'm starting to accept we're not going to get back together. I'm starting to accept I might never talk to her or see her again. I'm starting to accept I'm never going to meet anyone like her again and I might not feel what I felt for her with anyone ever again. Aren't things supposed to be getting better at this point? I get that the timeline of healing isn't the same for everyone but people constantly tell me that NC will help yet I've only felt worse since it's started. Am I doing something wrong? What gives?
mtnbiker3000 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Going on 6+ months since my ex-girlfriend dumped me, around 3 weeks of NC now, haven't heard a single thing from her. I'm starting to accept we're not going to get back together. I'm starting to accept I might never talk to her or see her again. I'm starting to accept I'm never going to meet anyone like her again and I might not feel what I felt for her with anyone ever again. Aren't things supposed to be getting better at this point? I get that the timeline of healing isn't the same for everyone but people constantly tell me that NC will help yet I've only felt worse since it's started. Am I doing something wrong? What gives? You must give it some more (way more) time. 3 weeks is nothing. Be vigilant and it will pay off!!! 1
Chi townD Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 Going on 6+ months since my ex-girlfriend dumped me, around 3 weeks of NC now, haven't heard a single thing from her. I'm starting to accept we're not going to get back together. I'm starting to accept I might never talk to her or see her again. I'm starting to accept I'm never going to meet anyone like her again and I might not feel what I felt for her with anyone ever again. Aren't things supposed to be getting better at this point? I get that the timeline of healing isn't the same for everyone but people constantly tell me that NC will help yet I've only felt worse since it's started. Am I doing something wrong? What gives? What positive changes have you started making in your life? Tell me about them?
Author Chris715 Posted June 8, 2013 Author Posted June 8, 2013 What positive changes have you started making in your life? Tell me about them? Honestly not much. I've gotten a job since then to make money while I'm in school but overall I've been pretty depressed since this all started.
aloneinaz Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 Going on 6+ months since my ex-girlfriend dumped me, around 3 weeks of NC now, haven't heard a single thing from her. I'm starting to accept we're not going to get back together. I'm starting to accept I might never talk to her or see her again. I'm starting to accept I'm never going to meet anyone like her again and I might not feel what I felt for her with anyone ever again. Aren't things supposed to be getting better at this point? I get that the timeline of healing isn't the same for everyone but people constantly tell me that NC will help yet I've only felt worse since it's started. Am I doing something wrong? What gives? I think what's held you recovery back is you contact w/her up until 3 weeks ago. I don't know you're whole story but.. I would of gave up hope for a reconcilliation after 30-60 days. My now ex and I broke up many times but never went past 30 days w/out getting back together. If you read your post, you're making statements that you don't know to be true. You'll probably see her again. You'll meet someone else you like as much or more and have potentially more feelings. Like you, I'm in the same boat. I need some time to go by to heal and then jump back into the dating pool.
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