LoveB86 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 My heart is catching up to my head... He's gone for good. It's been 2 months and a week already since they been together and since I last heard from him. He hurt me so bad, no one has ever hurt me so bad the way he did. He threw me away so easily. I work with the ex and his new gf he dumped me for. His girlfriend of 2 months is talking about having babies with him and marriage so fast as she told a friend of mine. Sadly, she tells my friend all their business like a typical attention seeker. It bothered me that my friend told me this, so now I don't really talk to her anymore because I told her over and over not to tell me their relationship. My friend said she told me because she thinks the girl is crazy and wanted me to hear how crazy she really is that was why. I just stay quiet and say nothing. I stand tall since day 1. I don't wish bad on them for what he did to me. I don't feel vengeful because I don't want karma or negative energy to fall back on me. Makes me sad because I am respecting their relationship, I am holding the weight of sadness, grief, anger, and all of the above. I am the one who no longer feel confident... I am the one who is left alone... Only amusement I get out of this is my friend asked my ex about the marriage and children comments, along with how their both spending every single day together and he tells her "What are you talking about".. Talk about attention seekers and people telling their business out there.
Lolita_Sky Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 I think your exe's gf is doing all of that to get a reaction out of you. I would continue doing like you are by saying nothing. There's no telling she'd probably go back and tell her what you say/how you react to the news. You're being smart by cutting contact with her to a minimum. All I can tell you is to try and keep your self preoccupied and do the things you like to distracr you from the pain.
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