hunterjumperrider Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 So I broke up with this guy after about 3 months of dating. I thought he would just stop talking to me and never see me again but we became best friends right after! We would talk everyday. Then I moved away and we still talked/emailed everyday. We would even talk about our new relationship issues (though neither of us had a gf/bf). We would even visit each other and we would hook up and sometimes even act like we were still together. We talked about never getting back together because we weren't really compatible in the long run. My question is why would he want to be close friends after a breakup? Don't most people when they get dumped to totally cut off contact? He has a girlfriend now and we don't talk at all anymore. I know girls don't like other girls encroaching on their new bf, but to totally cut off contact? Does he not care about me anymore?
Phoe Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 He wanted to remain close friends with you so he could hook up with you and have ease of physical intimacy without any strings attached. Now he found a new girl and you are no longer needed. Harsh and cruel, but that's how he operates.
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