Kaiten Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 I used to believe the lie that any relationship could be salvaged if you did all the right things after the break up. It's not true. I didnt make all the right moves but i didnt do anything horrible either. My ex and I broke up over some small things that added up over time. At first, i thought we still had a chance because when i asked if she still loved me she would say yes. I asked her on a date and she said yes. I got busy for a month or two, and when i came back to talk to her she had a really mean attitude towards me (for no reason at all). She really does hate me. I dont know how or why. I havent talked to her in forever or seen her in forever and now she hates me. Not every relationship can be saved. I really wasnt all that bad a boyfriend. We just had a falling out. And now she treats me like i did something she wont ever forget. She was much nicer to me when we broke up and time must have made her hate me or something. I was just trying to give her space. Its not fair that some relationships can be brought back and some cant. But life isnt fair. So move on. Its really the only thing you can do. Move on or die. 1
LostOne1 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 My ex did the same to me. But I think she did it , because she wanted to feel good about cheating on me with another guy. In her mind it justifies why she did what she did and to make it seem like a good thing from her end. It's to ease her own guilt. I know I'm an awesome guy and people tell me that all the time. So I'm not too worried about my ex's comments.
BC1980 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Both people have to want to make it work for the relationship to have a chance. One person cannot pull two. You just have to accept it. It makes you feel that your ex undervalues the relationship, and that hurts really badly because you do value it to the point of wanting to save it.
na49 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 It doesn't matter how much you do "right". The only way to "salvage" a relationship is for both people to want to "salvage" the relationship. Your ex never wanted to, so it doesn't matter how badly you did.
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