Aleasha Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 (edited) I need some advice 5 weeks ago my boyfriend broke up with me, and said he was ready to move on. I was heart broken as he is the father to my little boy, 2 weeks after the split he said hes in conflict with himself about weather he made the right choice he has flirted with me looked at me in a loving way expressed that he still has feelings for me I accepted the break up but the other day he rang me it was 4.50am in the morning we spoke on the phone for 2 hours 10 mins spoke about a lot of things he also reminisced about the good times in our relationship then he said he misses me and wants to come home and lay in bed and cuddle he said he was listening to a song it was called I'm comming home by a reggae artist and expressed that he wanted to cry he says that hes a broken man so I am confused weather he wants to come home to his family as I don't want to get my hopes up I just want the 3 of us to be a family but it sounds like he does want to come home any advice I would appreciate thanks for reading xx Edited June 7, 2013 by Aleasha
swimswithjeans Posted June 9, 2013 Posted June 9, 2013 It's easy for me to say... But... You have to wait for awhile until he knows EXACTLY what he wants and that it is DEFINITELY you. It is reasonable for him to feel these emotions after the breakup and to come to you to express them- you were his very best friend. The thing is, if this ISN'T ABSOLUTELY what he wants- you will end up right where you are all over again, except more hurt. My grandma always told me when in doubt, do nothing. I believe that. Try to regain your own footing and everything else will follow- try not to contact him except for when it has to do with your child. Then just wait and see what happens but expect the worst even if you hope for the best. 1
Author Aleasha Posted June 11, 2013 Author Posted June 11, 2013 It's easy for me to say... But... You have to wait for awhile until he knows EXACTLY what he wants and that it is DEFINITELY you. It is reasonable for him to feel these emotions after the breakup and to come to you to express them- you were his very best friend. The thing is, if this ISN'T ABSOLUTELY what he wants- you will end up right where you are all over again, except more hurt. My grandma always told me when in doubt, do nothing. I believe that. Try to regain your own footing and everything else will follow- try not to contact him except for when it has to do with your child. Then just wait and see what happens but expect the worst even if you hope for the best. "He came round last night and we spoke he told me that he was finding it hard to let go I've been so good to him he knows this he kept paying me compliments and reminisced about the relationship he said he wants us to start from the beginning go on dates get to know each other again he will not be moving back in just yet until I know for sure even my little boy who's 4 wants mummy and daddy together he has said this bless him so hopefully this works out for the best as we still have a strong connection "
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