Miss Tree Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Hi all, I'm new to the forum so here goes. My long distance relationship is coming to an end. I live in Jersey, he is in Chicago and we have not seen each other since Christmas. I am moving back to Chicago in two weeks due to my job and now we are going to really be together as a COUPLE. I've been knowing him since we were 16 but have been getting to know him over the past several months as an adult. I am feeling NERVOUS & ANXIOUS because I don't know what to expect. I want this relationship to work and so does he. How do I stop being so nervous about seeing him again? Will things change between us now that we're going to see each other regularly? Kindly help!
ThomasD Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Not trying to be condescending, but there must be a dozen recent threads in this sub-forum with essentially the same question. You are in a better position to judge than we are. It depends on the current nature of your relationship. Where do you WANT it to go? Where does HE want it to go? The only thing we can say with reasonable certainty is that your relationship won't grow to its full potential without in-person interaction, but simply having face-to-face contact (even on a regular basis) doesn't ensure success. For the record - my LDR, starting with two people unknown to each other and sight-unseen for over 3 months, became a marriage a little over a year from the first in-person meeting, and still married almost 39 years later. 1
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