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In 4 days my ex will be leaving the uni we both go to. I have had to see him a few times a week for the past 6 months since the BU. We are NC but even catching a glimpse from him out of the corner of my eye hurts so much. Yet i dont feel happy that i wont have to suffer anymore starting next week. What im wondering is how will i feel the first few weeks knowing i will probably never see him again? Will it hurt just like when i just got my heart broken? Im scared...

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It would probably hurt but less than how it would hurt seeing him all the time, and for a shorter period. It really is good for you, even if you can't see it yet.

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One mistake is making an absolute (unless you were emotionally/physically abused) by saying "never again" - you might in a year or three or ten. And you'll be shocked to find there's no pain, only a memory.

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