jen_r Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 I've been single for 2 years after a breakup that I never, and I repeat NEVER thought I'd recover from. I finally have a thing for someone else and it's actually very exciting and making me feel alive again! So, we met through a mutual friend. I met him, talked for a few mins, found out he was super young and that was the end of the conversation. I didn't really think too much of it, or him, just thought he was being friendly trying to chat me up. Then we ran into each other again at a party and from what I remember (I was pretty drunk) we were bonding over stupid stuff and before I left he asked for my number...I still didn't think too much of this. Oh, and I do remember him trying to lie about his age...saying that he was my age. Probably trying to get me to look past the fact that he is young? The next few days he was texting me like crazy, seemed like he was just looking for reasons to text me and I was like...okay, whatever ya know? I'll go with the flow. We hung out again @ another get together and he asked when we were gonna hang out and we made loose plans to meet up. Long story short, we hung out again about a week later at a friends house and then we left in the middle of the night to grab food and ending up making out for like 2 hours. My god, he is a good kisser. I did mention that I thought he was a little young and that we might be in different stages in our life, just to see what he thought. He said he didn't think it was a big deal and I ended up agreeing. The texting has become less and I get this weird feeling that I might have blew it, because I told him that he was on my mind way too often. Which, may not be a big deal? I mean, if I liked someone and they said that to me I'd think "ok cool, so he's feeling me as well." I feel out of the loop in the dating world...should I be stand offish and play that stupid "hard to get game?" I just assume that he is young (22) and doesn't know what he's doing...I may just back off completely even though we are supposed to hang out this Saturday
TouchedByViolet Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 How old are you? Don't play games. If he is interested he'll come after you and if not plenty of other guys out there. Also, congrats on getting over your breakup. 1
Star Gazer Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 None of what you've described is "dating." You're running into each other and hanging out at get togethers; those aren't even one-on-one hangouts, let alone dates.
jphcbpa Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Just be who you are, don't beat yourself up. Keep loving yourself and do the things you do for self care.
Author jen_r Posted June 7, 2013 Author Posted June 7, 2013 None of what you've described is "dating." You're running into each other and hanging out at get togethers; those aren't even one-on-one hangouts, let alone dates. True, we aren't "dating"...I'm just saying in general that dating is weird and I dunno what I'm doing anymore haha.
Author jen_r Posted June 7, 2013 Author Posted June 7, 2013 How old are you? Don't play games. If he is interested he'll come after you and if not plenty of other guys out there. Also, congrats on getting over your breakup. I'm 28, and I'm not interested in playing games...I just know that is the mindset of (mostly) everyone. Everyone loves the chase. And because he is young, I was just wondering if maybe thats why he may be playing games.
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