irc333 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 I get a kick out of some women..saw this profile, she's 5'5", says she prefers BIG men...and that the smaller cannot seem to handle her "curves" Being a guy that's smaller in stature, but also have an affinity for women with curves....I really fail to see how a man of ANY shape couldn't "handle that"?
Treasa Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 If I had to guess, it means guys have probably remarked in the past that she's not skinny enough for them. I remember a boyfriend I had when I was 22. I was in GREAT shape - or so I thought. I had a lot of curvy muscles, amazing curves in all the right places, but because I didn't weigh 110 pounds, he thought I was "fat." I was not fat in the slightest - he was just an idiot. Ironically, I saw him recently, and BOY has he packed on the pounds!! LOL People are going to have whatever preferences they like, and that's fine, but she's probably just not skinny. 1
Star Gazer Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Ah, of course. More picking apart women, no inward focus. This is the simplest thing to understand. Many, if not most, women like to feel smaller than their man. The bigger the man, the smaller they feel. The end. 4
ltjg45 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Many, if not most, women like to feel smaller than their man. The bigger the man, the smaller they feel. But why? First they are on top of the corporate world and yet, in a relationship, they want to feel inferior to their men? What the hell? If women is going to aim for the top, they should embrace all of it, not just the part they really want and throw the one part they don't want back to the men.
Star Gazer Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 But why? First they are on top of the corporate world and yet, in a relationship, they want to feel inferior to their men? What the hell? If women is going to aim for the top, they should embrace all of it, not just the part they really want and throw the one part they don't want back to the men. Being smaller has NOTHING to do with being inferior. Being smaller physically has NOTHING to do with climbing to the top in the corporate world. It has to do with carnal desire and the protective instinct. You're really comparing apples and hand grenades here. 3
ltjg45 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Being smaller has NOTHING to do with being inferior. Being smaller physically has NOTHING to do with climbing to the top in the corporate world. It has to do with carnal desire and the protective instinct. You're really comparing apples and hand grenades here. So they just prefer aggressive men? However, isn't that part of the issues with U.S. relationships these days?
Treasa Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 You're really comparing apples and hand grenades here. 1
Star Gazer Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 So they just prefer aggressive men? However, isn't that part of the issues with U.S. relationships these days? Again, no. They like a man who can protect them, not a man they can dominate physically.
Treasa Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 So they just prefer aggressive men? However, isn't that part of the issues with U.S. relationships these days? How is your job search going? Send out any applications today? Go around to local places and apply? 1
ltjg45 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 How is your job search going? Send out any applications today? Go around to local places and apply? I did manage to do 2 online applications yesterday. I got a ton more left to go. As for local places, I hasn't got a chance to do that yet with problems coming from my younger brother and bad weather all week long. *sigh* I still got a long way to go.
MidwestUSA Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 I get a kick out of some women..saw this profile, she's 5'5", says she prefers BIG men...and that the smaller cannot seem to handle her "curves" Being a guy that's smaller in stature, but also have an affinity for women with curves....I really fail to see how a man of ANY shape couldn't "handle that"? She's probably trying to say it's going to take one heck of a man to carry her over a threshold some day, if ya know what I mean.
stillafool Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 But why? First they are on top of the corporate world and yet, in a relationship, they want to feel inferior to their men? What the hell? If women is going to aim for the top, they should embrace all of it, not just the part they really want and throw the one part they don't want back to the men. Yet, some men don't want a woman bigger than they are. You see it all the time men not wanting a girl they consider fat. Doesn't she have a right to want a man who is bigger than she?
Keenly Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 You're really comparing apples and hand grenades here. Some one is a listener...
PJKino Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Ah, of course. More picking apart women, no inward focus. But you just said women want to feel smaller then their man so how can it be inward focus when this is clearly out of his hands unless you know men who can grow taller in their 40's:lmao:
Author irc333 Posted June 7, 2013 Author Posted June 7, 2013 (edited) If I had to guess, it means guys have probably remarked in the past that she's not skinny enough for them. I remember a boyfriend I had when I was 22. I was in GREAT shape - or so I thought. I had a lot of curvy muscles, amazing curves in all the right places, but because I didn't weigh 110 pounds, he thought I was "fat." I was not fat in the slightest - he was just an idiot. Ironically, I saw him recently, and BOY has he packed on the pounds!! LOL People are going to have whatever preferences they like, and that's fine, but she's probably just not skinny. This woman is 5'5", and she is rather average build...no biggie....she has typical woman curves, I've been with and had seen a LOT curvier than her. They hope that they'll look small in comparison and that he thus won't notice how fat they are. Yeah, women who are bigger than a man in EITHER direction BOTH vertical AND the horizontal....have some phobia about dating men thinner or shorter than them. The short part, I can understand...but the overweight part? Hmmm. a bit of perplexing there. Edited June 7, 2013 by irc333
Imajerk17 Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 I think a better question to ask yourself irc333 is why you keep insisting on trying to "make wrong" every woman whose dating style doesn't work for you. Do you feel powerless in the dating world? It's OK if you do at least you're being honest with yourself here.... Newsflash: Most PEOPLE have a type. Also, people date for THEMSELVES, not to give a "deserving" guy like yourself a chance. 2
Phoe Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 Indeed, even a small skinny woman can start to feel gargantuan when next to a man who is smaller in stature than her. ESPECIALLY if that man makes a comment about her being larger than him. 3/5 of the men I dated were shorter and smaller than me. I had no problem with this until receiving the "fat" comments or complaints about my legs being too long... 2 of them did this. 1 of the shorter men never made a single bad comment about it and accordingly, I never noticed his height. At 5'8 135 pounds I am not fat by any means but it still hurts to be told that by someone who's smaller than you...
hppr Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 I get a kick out of some women..saw this profile, she's 5'5", says she prefers BIG men...and that the smaller cannot seem to handle her "curves" Being a guy that's smaller in stature, but also have an affinity for women with curves....I really fail to see how a man of ANY shape couldn't "handle that"? Everyone has preferences and the internet brings out the worst in em, especially women, so don't get your feathers ruffled if every girl describes their 'ideal man' in her profile and you don't seem to fit...send her a message anyways, she might like what you are selling you never know til you ask.
hppr Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 At 5'8 135 pounds I am not fat by any means but it still hurts to be told that by someone who's smaller than you... LOL sounds fine to me. I've never really been size-conscious when it comes to women as long as they had a nice figure I didn't care about what the scale said. But then I kinda know where you are coming from. I am 5'11 and 175 but my natural weight is more like 145-150. When I was 'skinny' I was really healthy, lean, strong, I bicycled a lot, went to the gym etc, but women always complained that I was way too skinny. I couldn't get a date to 'save my life' and when I did manage one, or worse a relationship, it usually ended in disaster. Eventually I decided on a radical option and got to where I was 190; my blood pressure was off the charts, body fat up, my back hurt, and women were all over me. They told me I was a great catch, they treated me with a lot more respect, very polite, lots of flirting. Their eyes would light up, they'd run over and hug me etc. I couldn't stay that size forever though probably would've had a stroke so I toned it down and lost some weight. Body-image, size, and what people expect in a partner these days is a very interesting thing.
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