Tinie Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 There's a guy at my work who I get along with great. We're the two biggest goofballs and we mess around a lot, our desks are next to each other and if I need help with my work, he's the guy I go to. At first, we've been sort of joking around a lot, but lately he's taken to giving me titles like "the pretty one" or "honey". He doesn't have a girlfriend. I know that because my coworkers told me. What's the deal? Is this just him goofing or is there something more?
USMCHokie Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 What's the deal? Is this just him goofing or is there something more? I think he wants to put his peepee in your vajayjay... 1
USMCHokie Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 But seriously though, do you spend time or talk with him outside of work? Or does it stay completely in the office?
USMCHokie Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Nope, just in the office. Do you want to spend time with him outside of the office...?
drr6 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Nope, just in the office. Ugh gross. Don't be a baby. USMCHokie is twisted but he answers honestly.
Christineoil Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 The way I determine if a guy is in to me is by casually bringing up another guy in front of him. Maybe something simple like "That new guy in the mail room is kinda hot." or something subtle like that. Your answer will be in his reaction. If he's into you, he might seem a little ackward or even try to steer you away from the guy. If he's not into you, he might say something like "oh yeah I could see the two of you together." And you have your answer either way!
Author Tinie Posted June 8, 2013 Author Posted June 8, 2013 Don't be a baby. USMCHokie is twisted but he answers honestly. ...Ok? How am I being a baby? I smell a troll... Hokie can say whatever he likes. "Gross" refers to the guy's intentions to get into my pants. Or is that not gross? Considering we don't know each other well... @Hokie- No I don't want to.
USMCHokie Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 Hokie can say whatever he likes. "Gross" refers to the guy's intentions to get into my pants. Or is that not gross? Considering we don't know each other well... He wants to get in your pants because he thinks you're physically attractive. He doesn't really care if he knows you well or not. I think you mentioned somewhere that you are 20? You'll understand this eventually... @Hokie- No I don't want to. Then why care if he's flirting? Just go about your day. If him calling you pet names makes you uncomfortable, then tell him to stop. If you enjoy the attention he provides, then allow him to continue.
Inexperienced85 Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 But I'm betting that if you told him you just want a little flirting and no sex then he'd stop being so flirty with you.
Author Tinie Posted June 9, 2013 Author Posted June 9, 2013 @inexperienced- Hm. Not sure if I should outright say that. I think he'll think I'm crazy...
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