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Should I wait on him or reach out myself?


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This is a follow-up from a previous thread.

 

I went out with this guy twice, then we didn't see each other for 2 months. But just last week, he got back in touch. We went on a third date which went well. After that date, when I arrived home, I received a text from him saying:

 

"Just so we're on the same page, do you think I only take you out as a friend? I feel like you do. Let me know."

 

I responded with:

 

"Well, its hard for me to tell where you're coming from, and thats probably because we've only hung out a couple times, plus the fact that we haven't spoken in a couple months."

 

Then he said:

 

"K. Well please know that I'm attracted to you and I've been wanting to kiss you for a while. Hope that helps."

 

I responded several hours later with:

 

"I think you're attractive and I feel the same way, but I'd like to get to know you better."

 

That was the end of our conversation. This was on saturday. It is now thursday and I haven't heard from him. My question is, do I wait on HIM? Or should I just reach out myself?

 

Any thoughts appreciated :)

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If you really like spending time for him, arrange something yourself. And if THAT doesn't work, then don't bother. Even if he has a legitimate excuse. If he really likes you he'll view the date you arranged as a sign of interest.

 

Good luck!

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Maybe he's seeing other people at the same time?

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Maybe he's seeing other people at the same time?

 

That's what I figured. If that's the case, I don't have time for it!

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