jacg89 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 We've been friends for almost a year.. I am sure that he likes me, even if its just a little bit... there is definetly something there. He calls me cute & gorgeous (he does this with other girls around me too, but barely, like ever) and we have the same day off too... So we've been hanging out every week lately. weather it is just to run an errand, go bike riding, out to dinner, the other day he took me our friends' moms birthday party.. yeah. tonight, we are going out to dinner. the only thing is, he hasn't made a move. I don't know if its because I am shy and that's whats holding me back or what... maybe he sees me as just a friend... but I do know that he likes me.... even if its just a little. any conversation starters or advice for me ? at this point I am desperate for him to kiss me already! haha thanks in advance
apple OR orange Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 If and When he ever makes a move... You mean you asked this as no matter what, your not going to make a move, he HAS to do it then? some people never got the "equality" thing did they.
Author jacg89 Posted June 7, 2013 Author Posted June 7, 2013 You mean you asked this as no matter what, your not going to make a move, he HAS to do it then? some people never got the "equality" thing did they. its not that I am saying that I am forbidden of doing it, I am shy. plus, I feel like if I am wrong, and I just go in and randomly kiss him... that may ruin our friendship.. its a tricky frustrating situation. don't you agree?
zebracolors Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 its not that I am saying that I am forbidden of doing it, I am shy. plus, I feel like if I am wrong, and I just go in and randomly kiss him... that may ruin our friendship.. its a tricky frustrating situation. don't you agree? What if he's feeling the exact same thing and not making a move because he is shy also? I'm in a similar boat, but I'll advise you next time you're with him (because at least you can be with your guy crush fairly regularly) if the opportunity presents itself, just casually see if he'll hold your hand. Its really hard to mess that up and its not putting any pressure on him:D And it might turn out he's receptive and that will be the one signal to him that he can give you a kiss (if he's been wanting to) and if not, well of he's a decent friend, he should be gracious about telling you he only thinks of you as a friend.
Author jacg89 Posted June 7, 2013 Author Posted June 7, 2013 What if he's feeling the exact same thing and not making a move because he is shy also? I'm in a similar boat, but I'll advise you next time you're with him (because at least you can be with your guy crush fairly regularly) if the opportunity presents itself, just casually see if he'll hold your hand. Its really hard to mess that up and its not putting any pressure on him:D And it might turn out he's receptive and that will be the one signal to him that he can give you a kiss (if he's been wanting to) and if not, well of he's a decent friend, he should be gracious about telling you he only thinks of you as a friend. good idea..thanks! so last night when we hugged goodnight I gave him a quick kiss on the cheeck, (im over reacting, i know. but it was a big step for me!) but he did as well, at the same time. it was funny because he just seemed to hold onto me forever while hugging me... I was waiting to be let go.. haha Does it mean anything that he gave me a long hug? lol 2
Keenly Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 good idea..thanks! so last night when we hugged goodnight I gave him a quick kiss on the cheeck, (im over reacting, i know. but it was a big step for me!) but he did as well, at the same time. it was funny because he just seemed to hold onto me forever while hugging me... I was waiting to be let go.. haha Does it mean anything that he gave me a long hug? lol Game. Set. Match.
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