shibbikitteh Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 I've been seeing this guy since like February, everything was hunky dory, he was saying about how he wanted it to be official but he had a "suprise planned" to do it, and how he wanted us to go to vegas in september ect. Then a couple of weeks ago, he just stopped talking to me, pure silence I was concerned at first, then just pissed off I decided to just leave it, but he had my ipod and I wanted that back So i sent a message saying, "we can cut ties or whatever, just give me back my ipod" So literally within an hour, my doorbell rings and he's stood there with my ipod He makes a big scene about how all he wanted was space and he can't believe i wanted to cut him off, then he drove off that evening we have a non angry conversation i explained how wanting space was fine (hes got depression he told me a while back that he just shuts himself off from everyone and gets his head straight) but he can't just cut me off, and explained how he made me feel like I was a twat for thinking he cared He assured me that he did and still does care he just needed the space and yes he should of had the courtesy to tell me he then says "if you will wait for me, thats fantastic, if you dont want to, i know i'm messed up and I'll understand I said of course I'll wait, I get it, I'm just happy to know whats going on This is last weeks wednesday What popped up on fb today ? XXX is now in a relationship with some random girl - SINCE THE DAY HE GAVE ME BACK MY IPOD Uhm, Whut ?
CarrieT Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Uhm, Whut ? You answered your own question with this: he then says ".... i know i'm messed up and I'll understand Yep - he is INCREDIBLY messed up. You dodged a bullet. 1
Author shibbikitteh Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 Seems that way huh, I just dont know how to deal though ! 4 months invested wasted.
CarrieT Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 4 months invested wasted. Look at the bright side = four months is NOTHING is the grand scheme of true, honest and worthwhile relationships. Many of us here invested four years or FORTY YEARS before having things like this happen to them. You are lucky.
Author shibbikitteh Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 Perspective yes, thank you, I'm a typical virgo the big picture escapes me sometimes.
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