spiderowl Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Do beautiful women have problems because guys are so attracted to their looks and maybe don't think beyond that? What effect does this have on such women?
ltjg45 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Everyone got problems. Anyone who says they don't have problems is lying or just doesn't care anymore about them. Some just makes it more apparent than others. I'm one of them. 2
tbf Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Even if they have problems, this site wouldn't be the place to discuss them. 6
Treasa Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Of course we don't. And if we did, we wouldn't tell you about them. (For anyone getting all uppity who want to storm in here and tell me I'm not beautiful or that I'm full of myself, lighten up, ok?) 4
carhill Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Do beautiful women have problems because guys are so attracted to their looks and maybe don't think beyond that? What effect does this have on such women? The ones I've known whom I judged to be sincerely loving and caring people did express frustration that others, in general, focused mainly on their appearance. Fortunately, for them, most were married and the annoyances were minor. I've known a few who appeared 'jaded' by the whole experience and perhaps were affected psychologically; the most common shared feature amongst that group was a disclosed history of child molestation and/or rape at a young age, unfortunately due to their marked physical attractiveness at an early age, combined with being girls/women. Overall, IME, physically beautiful people, men and women, have problems just like anyone else. Perhaps their problems are 'different', but are or can be equally distressing/frustrating/damaging. 5
bobmarley Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Do beautiful women have problems because guys are so attracted to their looks and maybe don't think beyond that? What effect does this have on such women? I feel this way A LOT. I have a very exotic look, and I think a lot of times people date me for the mystique of dating someone with my ethnicity. It makes me really insecure, and I feel sometimes that I am not enough to sustain a normal relationship with a loving person. I feel often that I am their 'exotic plaything', and that if my looks were to fade, or if they were to really get to know me, they would leave. 2
Maleficent Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 The problem with attractive women is that they won't date some of you men. And you.really.don't.like.that. 2
Ursa Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Of course they do, but as TBF pointed out, this thread is probably not going to go well. We all know what happens here when anyone entertains the notion that life is not 100% unicorns and buttercups for all women everywhere. 4
Shaun-Dro Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Do beautiful women have problems because guys are so attracted to their looks and maybe don't think beyond that? What effect does this have on such women? I'll tell you: they're insecure all the time, trying to figure out if they're sexier than their counterparts, period. 1
ltjg45 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 In a way, mentioning my own problems didn't really help in the end. All it did was make it worst because I should have known these things and I'm too stupid to figure it out. So I learned a lesson after that mess yesterday, which is completely my fault.
todreaminblue Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 I've known a few who appeared 'jaded' by the whole experience and perhaps were affected psychologically; the most common shared feature amongst that group was a disclosed history of child molestation and/or rape at a young age, unfortunately due to their marked physical attractiveness at an early age, combined with being girls/women interesting theory do you think the jadedness comes as a result of being seen as a sexual being/object from a young age more so than the beauty aspect, most of the women i have been in therapy/group with who have suffered child abuse have felt jaded for this reason.....deb 1
Shaun-Dro Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 interesting theory do you think the jadedness comes as a result of being seen as a sexual being/object from a young age more so than the beauty aspect, most of the women i have been in therapy/group with who have suffered child abuse have felt jaded for this reason.....deb Of course some of them feel worthless, and rightfully so, since they've been getting through life solely based on looks and no substance, so the jadedness comes naturally, after their looks fade, and they can no longer hack it.
Phantom888 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Do beautiful women have problems because guys are so attracted to their looks and maybe don't think beyond that? What effect does this have on such women? Beautiful women are VERY insecure. I dated a few models, and one thing that really turned me off was how insecure they were about their own looks.
c57dood Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 There was a recent beautiful Indian actress who hung herself at age 25. Suicide. She was stunning. Do you know that women attempt suicide more than men, yet men are usually more successful because they use more lethal means? Among all the women who commit suicide, many of them you would find quite attractive. Just because a woman is physically blessed does not mean in any way she is happy. It is a fallacy to believe a beautiful woman has the world, let alone men in her hands.
todreaminblue Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Of course some of them feel worthless, and rightfully so, since they've been getting through life solely based on looks and no substance, so the jadedness comes naturally, after their looks fade, and they can no longer hack it. life solely based on looks and no substance, i was referring to women who have been sexually abused as beautiful girls.....being jaded from being seen as a sexual object......more so than jaded from being beautiful from a young age.....deb
ltjg45 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 And beta males could date Unattractive women instead of whining on loveshack about how they can't get an attractive women and how "unfair" it is to their self-entitlement complex.. So you are recommending the males to settle for some old, worthless crap. Great idea. *sarcasm off* Just like attractive women is better off remaining single than settle for worthless males, I rather say single than go after some women that looks worst than my ugliest brother with broken teeth. I'm sure some males already came to that conclusion and is going to stay single.
ThaWholigan Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 There was a recent beautiful Indian actress who hung herself at age 25. Suicide. She was stunning. Do you know that women attempt suicide more than men, yet men are usually more successful because they use more lethal means? Among all the women who commit suicide, many of them you would find quite attractive. Just because a woman is physically blessed does not mean in any way she is happy. It is a fallacy to believe a beautiful woman has the world, let alone men in her hands. Jiah Khan . I liked 2 of her movies. She was absolutely gorgeous. (Yes, I went through a Bollywood phase).
ThaWholigan Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Oh don't get me wrong im very glad women don't date those men, but they shouldn't then turn around and start crying themselves a river about the chronic lack of "good" men. Welcome back Greznog. 2
Maleficent Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 So you are recommending the males to settle for some old, worthless crap. Great idea. *sarcasm off* Just like attractive women is better off remaining single than settle for worthless males, I rather say single than go after some women that looks worst than my ugliest brother with broken teeth. I'm sure some males already came to that conclusion and is going to stay single. Sooo basically you're saying being 'unattractive' means you're worthless? wow... 4
tbf Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Beautiful women are VERY insecure. I dated a few models, and one thing that really turned me off was how insecure they were about their own looks.There you go. All the angsty males on LS can go and date models. Good luck! 3
Xinreeki Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 There you go. All the angsty males on LS can go and date models. Good luck! I don't know... Does Insecure + Insecure = Secure ? Or does insecure + insecure just create 2 even more insecure people? Do you think the 2 insecure people would end up fighting it out to see who could be the most insecure in the relationship? Or would they simply agree with each other's insecure musings? Would be an interesting topic to discuss I think. 3
tbf Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 I don't know... Does Insecure + Insecure = Secure ? Or does insecure + insecure just create 2 even more insecure people? Do you think the 2 insecure people would end up fighting it out to see who could be the most insecure in the relationship? Or would they simply agree with each other's insecure musings? Would be an interesting topic to discuss I think.According to LS mythology, if beautiful women date insecure men, the men magically gain confidence which equates to confidence not coming from within. 2
paigej91 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 I'm not sure I'd call myself "beautiful", but I get called "cute" and "pretty". I also get blatant stares and cat-calls when I walk down the street. I'd say I'm jaded when it comes to men finding me physically attractive/cute/whatever. All throughout college men approached me for reasons I wasn't interested in. I probably turned down some men who were actually genuinely nice. In fact, when my ex first started talking to me, it took me a long time to get over the skepticism that he was only talking to me to have a FWB "arrangement". I don't think I'm a 10/10, but the point of my post is: women are sometimes affected psychologically by the way society treats women on a daily basis. 4
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