Cfb770099 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Ok so this guys from my Uni showed interest to me, at least I felt he looked at me in a special way. Since classes are over and we´re studying for exams I asked him to meet up at the library to study sometimes, to send me a text if he was coming since I´d be there almost every day. He answered "yes of course, great idea I´ll def let you know blablabla" but then I didn´t hear anything else from him. He always seems to be so hard to get a hold of, like he does´t have Facebook, I don´t have his cell num (and I´ve heard his very bad at checking it) and he only checks his emails once every 2 days (like seriously!) (He´s kind of a hippy-I-don´t-need-a-stupid-smartphone-and-a-Facebook-account-kinda type). Two important infos: 1) I´m quite shy, and not very good at showing interest so I might have scared him away in the beginning. 2) He doesn´t seem to be a player at all (He´s not even that attractive and has only been flirting in a "shy" way)! So what´s up with this guy? Should I give up or does he just need a clearer sign that I do like spending time with him? In the beginning he really seemed to be into me! Have I misunderstood something? I´m so confused!
drr6 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Sounds like he is just a bit of a space cadet. Your best bet is to run into him at some activity, bar or party. The next hacky sack game on the quad perhaps? 1
Author Cfb770099 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 Yes U guess you really could call him a space cadet. He seems to live in his own world a little, it´s nice to talk to him when we´re face to face, but he´s difficult to reach when there are no indirect opportunities to meet (like classes, classes are over now!). But don´t space cadets turn into "normal" again when they´re interested in someone? Should I interpret his behavior as "not interested" or "i´m just generally hard to get a hold of"?
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