totallylost5040 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 So the person I was dating contacted me 3 weeks after we were done. She asked how I was doing and what I have been up to...(I was surprised) But then proceeded to ask me if I had pics from our vacation that we took and wanted to get them all. my initial instinct was, she was going to share them WITHOUT me in them and I got kind of resentful and bitter.... which is probably what she's going to do. any thoughts on this? Should I even respond at all?
drr6 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 What do you mean "share (social media?) your pics without you" in them? Like photoshop you out or just use the ones without you in them? Either way, why not provide her the pics of a vacation you took together? It will show that you are a decent human being and increase your karma score.
Author totallylost5040 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 Hi there, yah I think through social media. She already knows im a decent human being, but its kind of weird to ask that after you break up, shouldn't this have been done BEFORE? ya know? It's just kind of weird, I don't want to look too much into it as well or overthink.
BustedUpInside Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 I agree. If she really wanted the pictures that bad, why bring it up now? It is not really your responsibility to give them to her. However, if you want to then I would just send them and forget about it. Who cares what she is going to do with them.
Author totallylost5040 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 You are right, I should give them to her to be a decent person, im just not ready to go through and do that right now, its still kind of painful to my heart. But I'll eventually send them instead of being a jerk, I'll respond soon i guess. I just find it very odd timing. 1
Author totallylost5040 Posted June 7, 2013 Author Posted June 7, 2013 Now, she says we should meet up........ i'm not sure what to think about it.... im thinking about going to NC, she IMed me and started talking about it....
landshark Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Did she tell you why she wants to meet? Is it just to get these pictures? I take it you still have a thing for this girl so if she wants to meet I'd find out why. Otherwise go back to NC and get her those pics when you are good and ready, sorry you're going through this...but give me some more details and I'll get back with you...
Author totallylost5040 Posted June 7, 2013 Author Posted June 7, 2013 Hey landshark, yah just to meet for the pictures..... but it can easily be done online. Yah I still have an interest, it just feels like things are still unfinished between us (on my end), I never really got a clear reason and the reason she gave seemed effy, and we had SUCH a strong connection between us.
Leigh 87 Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 You can't bother with her UNLESS she actually says that she wants to get back together. Tell her as simply as possible: Look, I'll send the pics online through Facebook. If you're that adam about getting the actual pictures, I can post them to you. I would be honest with her before no contact: just one last thing, before no contact, that you should tell her. I would tell her : I have feelings for you. I don't want to see or talk to you because it's too hard when I have feelings for you. Please stop contacting me so I can move on. After telling her you would rather send the pictures and also say your part about her leaving you alone, recommend No Contact.
Author totallylost5040 Posted June 8, 2013 Author Posted June 8, 2013 Thanks Leigh, I'm just actually going back into No Contact. I replied that I'm not going to send the pictures now, i'll do it when I have the chance, im not going to be her little bitch. I told her I'm trying to figure things out. Dueces.
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