Should I request this Woman on Facebook?

[chrisftw]

So two women whom i'm friends with at work had joked around with another woman on lunch about how she should talk to me. This wasn't random considering i told them both that i thought she was extremely attractive.

 

at first the girl who i think was attractive didn't know who i was. considering the fact we've never spoke outside of flirty glances and half smiles from a distance or in passing at work. it doesn't surprise me.

 

but she immediately recalled wait is that the guy with the Camaro? and then the three launched into a flirty banter about me and how she should approach me and show me her tattoos. etc.

 

thing is i hardly see this woman. but now that i know she has an interest me it makes me want to push forward as soon as possible.

 

through her closest mutual friend whom i'm also friends with and works side by side with her I finally got her name. i'm wondering should i just request this girl on facebook and go from there? or should i wait and naturally approach her when i see an opportunity at work which could be some time considering we don't work in the same area at all. and i may see her on chance twice maybe 4 times in a 3 week period.

[jphcbpa]

I would suggest doing the intro in person since you will have that chance. Also it will give you both time to think about each other and anticipate the meeting. If it is meant to be, let it. Dont force this. Tap the breaks turbo.

 

FB is so impersonal.

[chrisftw]

I would suggest doing the intro in person since you will have that chance. Also it will give you both time to think about each other and anticipate the meeting. If it is meant to be, let it. Dont force this. Tap the breaks turbo.

 

FB is so impersonal.

 

yeah I agree now that i think about it. I ran into her today she was making eye contact with me while i was on my way back from break just as she was leaving to go home.

 

I didn't introduce myself but i did make contact because i was in a rush. i just said hey how's it going. she smiled and said good. i said are you leaving already? and she said yeah finally. I just said nice.. and walked right past her.

 

this whole interaction taking place while i'm ditching a cigarette and walking.

 

at least i opened the communication doorway. and its kind of obvious as well why i made contact with her when all the other times seeing her I've not said a word. When i have more of a chance i'll make a better introduction.

[chrisftw]

just an update: i actually had time to properly introduce myself. and although i knew her name. I asked her name and she reached out for a handshake and asked mine.

 

through our limited conversation she was very receptive and even asked questions about me that i didn't even know she knew yet. so i teased her saying you and so and so must talk a lot about me.. just so you know they're all lies.

 

she laughed and said they talk/gossip about all the guys. i'm like really so what's happening with so and so. she's like who's that. i'm like so you don't talk about all the guys just certain ones. i was like hopefully nothing bad was said about me. she said absolutely not.

 

I got her age and i was a little let down because she's a lot younger than me. but she didn't seem bothered that i was much older than her. she navigated the conversation because she engaged me more than i engaged her asking question showing me her art etc..

 

her vibe was open, i think she was glad i finally said something. but she also seemed guarded. but not overly walled up just cautious.

 

Wondering how i should proceed. i was thinking about next time we see each other in person asking if she wants to go to an art show downtown and maybe get some coffee while we're out there. i also got her facebook rather than her number considering her age i felt that was probably a better move initially. i'm slowly escalating. it started with a verbal acknowledgment, now a formal introduction and so on. so i could also ask her on there through chat.

Edited June 10, 2013 by chrisftw