shelley1992 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 So my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, we have been together previously before. We have been going strong. We hardly ever fight and when we did he would always apologize first. He would text me nonstop everyday and always tell me goodnight and Goodmorning. I love him so much and about 3 days ago he starts ignoring my text and calls, he will text me like 2 or three times maybe. I called him and asked him what's wrong and he says he is busy working on some stuff and spending time with his family, but he is always with his family. I just don't understand why he would all of a sudden just cut me off, there was a time when I told him I didn't know if we would work out and he started freaking out and blowing up my phone telling me we were soulmates and that he would never let me go. When I called him yesterday he finally answered and told me nothing was wrong and there is no one else. I asked him was he enjoying me constantly calling and texting him and he said it was kind of nice. So I went all evening and night without texting or calling but he still has not texted or called me. I don't understand how he can be so crazy about me and then in an instant just not talk to me like I don't exist. I'm so confused and I need help to make him want me again
AzureX91 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 It seeks that you two were in contact a lot, calling and texting many many times per day. I always think that too much of anything, no matter how good it is, can ultimately be bad or harmful. Its hard to know for sure what is exactly going on with your boyfriend but maybe he just needs his own space or his own time once in a while. He may want that time to hang out with his bros, pursue his hobbies, etc. The example I like to use is ice cream. You eat a scoop of your favorite flavor ice cream now. How do you feel? Great right? Now take another bite, and another and another. Eventually wouldn't you want to take a break from that ice cream and pick it up later? (Let's assume you're only eating one flavor). This may or may not be the case but I think it can be worth considering as a possibility Girls might now operate like this, guys might operate it like it more so. Hope this helps
Author shelley1992 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 Thank you for the advice, I went and talked to him today and he told me he loved me and he was sorry. Then out of no where right before I left he told me he needed time to think. I started freaking out and asked him everything I could think of and all he could say was "I don't know what I want right now"! He told me he loves me and I make him happy but he needs time to think. I just can't understand what there is to think about or what he is so confused about. Its so hard for me to leave him alone cause I'm scared he will forget about me, move on, or realize he would rather be single. We have been through so much since I was 17 and now I'm 23. I don't see how he can move on and forget me that easy.
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