Simpleoldschool Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Lets just say there is about 1 way to do it right and an infinite number of ways to do it wrong. From approaching them up to the point of whatever stage the relationship is.Forming one to having one to being married to after marriage. Its like a game of constant expectations where if one thing detracts from seeing you as a dream come true you simply transition into freddy crueger. Divorced btw. Now im a man of self-respect so i have a problem with that, indefinately. Courting women makes me upset. Its highly demeaning. I'll explain the approach no no's but before that i would like to say something. in my normal mind someone should simply be able to have a conversation with somebody imprompto meeting them. if people are smart thats HOW you meet someone. Called talking. Yeah but there are RULES. HAHAHA RULES TO TALKING. seriously men you have to be mister perfect. * pre reqs : own foreighn cars, have an amazing voice, have the perfect eye color, hair must be presentable in the way it looks like you wash with a bar of gold, dressed in a way that says you have alot of money, have white teeth brighter than the sun, shoes that cost more than what your wearing, tanned in the way that would make adonis look like he needs to go back to a booth but not over done ( see perfection), body language that suggests confidence not arrogance, colonge that smells like bliss. ETC ETC ETC. even so now you have to be identified to have some social value. Even if shes attracted now you have to jump through hoops and barrells. If its a chance meeting asking for her phone number is innappropriate regardless of light talking. It telegraphs interest( heres men being simple) and thats a no no. It also telegraphs that you are needy. Now come on. REALLY. im needy because out of everything i could have asked you i asked for you phone number and some mutual attention to the fact that both of us are interested. * P.S. never talk to a girl thats not interested* So there is a formula. which i think is stupid and all women will disagree. However those women that disagree arent dating you. so whats it anyway. First you have to approach them, confidently have a small conversation and cutt off all interest whatsoever at some point. generally the two minute mark, during this conversation you have to make them laugh. so bassically you have about 1 min of actual bs talking and maybe 2 laughs and then you have to act like you dont know them anymore and get back to what you were doing. this leaves them interested. it telegraphs you know what your doing. Then you dont seem needy. Women identify you as needy if you ask them to do something. lol. now for anyone saying im talking bs. Your women is probably using you. You see a women takes what option is best by her if she isnt falling in love anytime soon. i laugh. So what comments can i get. i really dont feel like finishing. Im exhausted from doing all of this. its just simply irritating. sure i got dates and by the time they rolled around i wasnt even interested because of all the work. and im sure a women will tell you thats what they deserve. what happened to a little respect ? i think people deserve that too.
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