don1234 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 So I met this girl at a bar, I got her number and a few days later I was at her house drinking beer, watching a ball game and having a good time. At some point in the night I put my arm around her, and she seemed very receptive to it. She scooted in closer and seemed comfortable. I did somethings that could be considered forward, for example I somewhat massaged her shoulder when my arm was around her and later gave her a quick kiss. We decided to leave her place and go to my pool for a swim, but when we got to my car she said she was sorry but that I was too forward and she wasn't that kind of girl. I was somewhat taken aback and tried to explain I was not looking for someone to hook up with, that I usually am not incredibly forward, and she said she was sorry but told me to call her the next day. I called her the next day and she did not answer, I also texted her the next day saying I was sorry about being so forward and asking if she would hang out again. She has yet to respond, and I am at a loss as to what to do. The obvious answer is to forget it and move forward, she isn't interested, but we I think we really connected and the only reason things went south is my supposed forwardness. Sorry for the tl;dr post but I could really use some help here, I want a chance so she can get to know the real me. Advice?
SJC2008 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Start off with a date next time instead of going to her house. If she invited you to her house that's her fault, and if it was your idea she should of said no.
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