ImperfectionisBeauty Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 So I'm going out on a date with this guy tomorrow, we are going to see The Purge I didn't want a movie to be the first date but he insisted and we have skyped and talked on the phone a few times. He is 29 has a 2 year old and he's really cute and nice, he is a teacher which kind of like really turns me on for some reason. I'm afraid he won't like me, he knows about my CP and it took him a little while to get used to the idea he hasn't seen me walk obviously and I'm afraid when he does he will totally be turned off and not ask me on another date. I'm not usually this nervous but I am really interested in him. What should I do?
Tinie Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 He's dating you because he enjoys spending time with you, you're a fun person etc. Not because he doesn't like your walk. For example, you see a very hot guy with a couple of zits on his face. He approaches you. You're not going to pass him up just because of some minor detail? Go, have fun, be yourself. If he doesn't like you because of your CP, well sorry, but that doesn't sound like dateworthy material to me...
DollWelch Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 I have to ask, ImperfectionisBeauty: You say he is a 29 year old with a 2 year old. Is he separated? Or divorced? Widowed? Before you become caught in an unfortunate situation, you should ask him about his relationship and/or marital status. As much as you (and we) want to believe that a man online is single, sometimes that can be furthest from the truth. Otherwise, just be yourself. Drop a couple of hints about wanting to see him again, perhaps. Nothing too forward. Let him come to you.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 I have to ask, ImperfectionisBeauty: You say he is a 29 year old with a 2 year old. Is he separated? Or divorced? Widowed? Before you become caught in an unfortunate situation, you should ask him about his relationship and/or marital status. As much as you (and we) want to believe that a man online is single, sometimes that can be furthest from the truth. Otherwise, just be yourself. Drop a couple of hints about wanting to see him again, perhaps. Nothing too forward. Let him come to you. He was never married to his ex, he was with her like 2 years and idk what happened in the relationship but he ended it a year or 2 ago. He hinted at the fact that she got regnant on purpose to keep him or something, I don't know. He's the thing I am also seeing the marine guy (nothing is official I'm just dating around NOT sleeping around lol) I feel like I am betraying him by going out with anyone else but idk I feel confused. I don't know if I even see it going anywhere with the teacher, he isn't the best conversationist haha idk I'm nervous and I have nothing to wear :/
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted June 7, 2013 Author Posted June 7, 2013 Update, the movie was stupid and he was a little boring... He didnt even pay for my ticket! Literally I'm not going out with him again... Absolutely not! And he avoided paying for the ticket in the dumbest way, like looking down at his phone pretending to not realize that we were buying tickets.. Ew I'm never ever going out with him. He was like that present on Christmas that is wrapped so perfectly and beautiful then you open it and it's like socks or something stupid and useless..
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