jamesh1985 Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 hey, i am new here and i am seeking some advice, well its kinda lame but heres the deal theres this girl at my work place, a warehouse, that i like and i have been told from another girl that see likes me, everytime we pass by we smile at each other and i have talked to her twice, once about what time it was and another about a question dealing with work. i want to go up and talk to her but i cant , see i have moved alot when i was in school and never really got to know anyone that good so i am very very shy, my last girlfriend was in 7th grade and since then i have been on one date, heres how that went (went to see a movie, half way through she said she was cold and i knew that was my cue to put my arm around her but i coundnt, i dont know what i was thinking but i didnt, she then grabbed my arm and leaned on it, i felt like such an ass) . so back to the question, if i ask her out what do we do, the normal movie thing or is there something different, and if we do go to the movies is it almost mandatory to put my arm around her, do i wait for a sign, what? I know its horrible that a 19year old is asking this but i dont feel comfortable asking someone in my house. i am very funny and loud around family members but other than that i am the shy quiet guy who doesnt say hardly anything.
Jilly10340 Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 Well, if you're really really shy, the movie thing would be a good idea because then you don't have to talk much. If you don't want to be really obvious about asking her out on a date, you could always mention to her that you guys should go and have some coffee or lunch sometime. About the movie....it's not mandatory for you to do anything to her. If she likes you, you know she likes you, and you feel comfortable around her...then hold her hand or something. You don't have to molest her in the movie theater or anything. You just have to go for it, if she doesn't want to hold your hand, she'll dodge it somehow. And if you've already been told that she does like you, then that's enough to know and you don't have anything to worry about. Good luck!
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