SadHumiliated Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Some days I don't think about him or her at all and what they did to me. Today the anger is just VIVID throughout my body. I feel like I want to punch something. I can't help but feel like they "won" even if they are both cheating pieces of ****. I'm just past the 40 day NC mark. I guess we are more considered LC because I still have to see both of them daily at school even if we don't look, talk, or stay around eachother. I don't think I've ever wanted revenge before but dammit do I want them to get theirs. This is so unhealthy. I've tried funneling the anger into my work but damn I just want to punch things. It's even 10x worse because of how popular and well liked they both are in our peer group.
drr6 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 All understandable. FWIW Karma does exist in these situations. If they acted like scumbags, that will eventually become known. For now, funnel your anger into something more physical like going to the gym. Angry workouts/physical exertions often achieve the best results.
denxnis Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 You're upset because your ex is having a good time and you're in limbo over the relationship the two of you had; this is 100% normal. If you hit the gym and work on improving yourself (physically/mentally) and become more independent you will live a better life in the future, that I can guarantee you. You're ex's relationship has about a 1% chance of actually lasting seeing that it started with him cheating on you. They'll have their fun, the feeling will slowly deteriorate, he'll contact you (this may take a while but it will happen), and you'll be too good for him by then. Time doesn't heal all, self-improvement does.
Author SadHumiliated Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 You're upset because your ex is having a good time and you're in limbo over the relationship the two of you had; this is 100% normal. If you hit the gym and work on improving yourself (physically/mentally) and become more independent you will live a better life in the future, that I can guarantee you. You're ex's relationship has about a 1% chance of actually lasting seeing that it started with him cheating on you. They'll have their fun, the feeling will slowly deteriorate, he'll contact you (this may take a while but it will happen), and you'll be too good for him by then. Time doesn't heal all, self-improvement does. I don't think he will contact me. He seems to into her. I was hoping this would blow up because of how different they are. Unless this is still the honeymoon phase. God I feel like crap. I want them to implode so badly.
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