Cinderella01 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Good evening everyone. I need help pls. I caught my almost fiancee out this weekend. He has been chatting on chatsites and complimenting other women as well as meeting them and are still denying it. I told hom last night its over, although my heart is breaking. This coming saturday he will be meeting one of these ladies on the chatsite. I got her number from his phone. I am trying to let go, but its not that easy. The thing is I contacted this lady and we started talking. She confirmed he is talking to her and they are planning to meet saturday. She will inform me of where and waht time (because he keeps denyin everything) my plan is to walk up to him while they are drinking coffee and say something that will almost slice his heart in 2. Something like payback. I was faithful to him and my dream was so marry him. He will never know what damaged he caused, because he believes in his own lies. Any advice of what to say will be more than welcome. 2
Exitleft Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 The truth is the best revenge would be doing nothing at all and letting him go on his date. It hurts, it will for some time to come. But someone who cannot consider how they feel while they are with you won't give a damn about how you feel while they are not. Let him go dear. He's not worth the petrol money.
KatZee Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 You caught your "almost fiancee" ? What is an "almost fiancee" ? He's your boyfriend. You caught your boyfriend sneaking behind your back. Clearly he's scum and clearly he's a player. I wouldn't even show up to the bar at all. If you live together wait until he's at work and move all your stuff out. Leave the key, along with a printed conversation between you and this woman. Tell him that it's over and he'll never be hearing from you again.
Author Cinderella01 Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 The truth is the best revenge would be doing nothing at all and letting him go on his date. It hurts, it will for some time to come. But someone who cannot consider how they feel while they are with you won't give a damn about how you feel while they are not. Let him go dear. He's not worth the petrol money. I think you are right, its just because he keeps on denying it as if I am looking for something that does nog exist. It would be like closure for me.
Author Cinderella01 Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 You caught your "almost fiancee" ? What is an "almost fiancee" ? He's your boyfriend. You caught your boyfriend sneaking behind your back. Clearly he's scum and clearly he's a player. I wouldn't even show up to the bar at all. If you live together wait until he's at work and move all your stuff out. Leave the key, along with a printed conversation between you and this woman. Tell him that it's over and he'll never be hearing from you again. Almost fiancee - we were looking at rings had the honeymoon planned and who we would like to invite to the wedding, we were serious, or so I thought. Thank you, I must just let go. Still can't believe I was used and lied to though 1
Exitleft Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I think you are right, its just because he keeps on denying it as if I am looking for something that does nog exist. It would be like closure for me. I promise you it will only hurt more when he is sitting there acting smug and pretending you are a nut case for even showing up. No closure in that hun. Let him be, he's trash.
flitzanu Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 (edited) Good evening everyone. I need help pls. I caught my almost fiancee out this weekend. He has been chatting on chatsites and complimenting other women as well as meeting them and are still denying it. I told hom last night its over, although my heart is breaking. This coming saturday he will be meeting one of these ladies on the chatsite. I got her number from his phone. I am trying to let go, but its not that easy. The thing is I contacted this lady and we started talking. She confirmed he is talking to her and they are planning to meet saturday. She will inform me of where and waht time (because he keeps denyin everything) my plan is to walk up to him while they are drinking coffee and say something that will almost slice his heart in 2. Something like payback. I was faithful to him and my dream was so marry him. He will never know what damaged he caused, because he believes in his own lies. Any advice of what to say will be more than welcome. and he is going to make you out to be COMPLETELY crazy. he'll embarrass you in front of his date, and embarrass you in front of everyone around, calling you a stalker ex girlfriend. confrontation is not your answer. you've got your information from his "date" that he's sneaking around, so just leave him, and leave the theatrics and drama at home. ps - nothing you say is going to "cut his heart in two". if he cared what you think, he wouldn't be meeting other women. Edited June 5, 2013 by flitzanu 1
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