maggie747 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Ok, I feel like I have no one to talk to about this. I don't want to bother the people around me...ugh I know it's only been 3 days since he left me, but I feel like I'm slipping. All I want to do is to talk to him. Mornings seem to be the worse time for me...I cry the whole way to work. I have to keep telling myself that he's not coming back....but hoping I see a message from him on my phone, email, etc. And then I start again, he's not coming back, he's not coming back. I can't take it
Own Worst Enemy Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 1 - me too. Every text, every email that isn't from him is depressing as hell. Fistbumps are all I have. 2 - you're doing so much better than you think you are. One tiny step at a time. Wish I had something more helpful to say! 1
Author maggie747 Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 Thank you. I'm thinking if I don't feel better in a few weeks, I'll give therapy a try. Hope you're doing ok 1
Khlash Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 God songs on the radio and txt messages are the hardest....Every song reminds me of her and every txt that isn't hers is crushing. I need to stop obssessing but I don't know how either...I'm sorry.. maybe knowing you aren't the only one helps. It does for me..a bit
Chris715 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I feel you and you're not alone. When my ex girlfriend broke up with me it was the exact same thing, miserable mornings, miserable days, hope that every text and phone call was from her only to be disappointed. 2 weeks of no contact for me here and honestly it's still not easy. If you need someone to talk to and maybe relate to feel free to PM me
Author maggie747 Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 Thanks guys : ) I haven't really listened to the radio just in case 'bad' songs come on. haha. Maybe we should listen to am talk radio. lol
Kristopher1 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Ok, I feel like I have no one to talk to about this. I don't want to bother the people around me...ugh I know it's only been 3 days since he left me, but I feel like I'm slipping. All I want to do is to talk to him. Mornings seem to be the worse time for me...I cry the whole way to work. I have to keep telling myself that he's not coming back....but hoping I see a message from him on my phone, email, etc. And then I start again, he's not coming back, he's not coming back. I can't take it Hey, Sorry you're hurting, I know exactly how you're feeling, I think most of us are going through the same thing! I'm on 3 weeks or something and I'm still thinking about my ex. It kills me at times, but what can you do? There's only really one thing you can do is just maintain NC and look after yourself. I would rather wait for my ex to reach out for me so that I know I'm wanted, as opposed to pleading my ex to take me back so that "I feel better". But in my case, my ex has a lot of pride so even if she does want me back, that pride of hers will probably hold her back from contacting me! I'm just venting as well I guess, but again maggie, it gets better, the start is always the worst! You can do it, and you have all the support on LS too!
Author maggie747 Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 Hi, go ahead and vent ! You're right about the NC. When I was driving home today, I was so glad I didn't email him! Right now I'm not feeling too bad : ) Have you all been keeping busy ?
Chris715 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Hi, go ahead and vent ! You're right about the NC. When I was driving home today, I was so glad I didn't email him! Right now I'm not feeling too bad : ) Have you all been keeping busy ? I've been trying to but some days it's tough as you all probably know. I got a new job, so that's helping during the day. Got invited to do stuff with friends tonight, not sure if I'm going to go though What have you all been doing?
Author maggie747 Posted June 6, 2013 Author Posted June 6, 2013 I agree with metal_chick. Even if you feel like you have to drag yourself, go. It will make you feel better. I've been trying to keep busy with work, going to start hiking more.
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