russty Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Hello everyone, Here is my situation, i broke up with her out from nothing (via sms ), because i was upset due to her behaviour and also because i had tought time in university (i know, selfish, stupid, idiot). I was shocked what i did, because i dont solve problem in this way. Anyway it happened . I came with deep appologies after two days and she told me that she does not want to talk to me. I said i respect that and i understand. After one week i came to her home to appology again because i felt need to do it personally. I saw that she is happy that i came, but she played stubborn. She told me give me time to decide you hurted me. After two weeks she text me: I like you, we can go somewhere but i do not want be in relationship now. I said ok, i respect that. And then the hell started. After 3 days She saw me in bar having fun and came to me. I was suprised and asked her sit next to me, her answer was arogant no, because you do not want to talk to me a then went away. I was like what??. She immediatelly texted me: I expected more from you and Next day she started to do this: 1-obviously fliting with other guys on FB 2-Posting status like i do not need man 3-she started to be very competitive, i add into some working group and then she added also on some similar groups. I posted photo from party she posted photo from party.. 4-Started posting hot picture of her 5-posting love songs about taking heart back etc... 6-Started to asking out friend of mine suddenly It was during whole months and i decided to not talk to her for a while. I understant that she wanted my attention, so i decided to talk to her after months and, she was very cold. So i told her that i will be in city at night and probably in our bar – no answer.. She came there she said hi to me with smile and went away. I came to her and she started to be angry on me and run away. Her friend came to me and told she does not want to talk to you today. Eventually i stopped her and Again told me how i hurt her and how she has a guy for tonight etc. Next day i tried AGAIN to do some nice gesture towards her, i came with flowers but guess what i was turned down badly i felt like the most needy guy and biggest looser on the earth. So we had fight on FB I asked her why she thinks that im doing this, she told me i do not know, i do not know what you want from me. Then the argument continued and eventually she told me leave me alone. I told her i will and i defriend her from FB. and wrote her a simple appology letter where i told her how sorry i am that i hurt her and that i have feelings for her. I thought that i wont ever hear from her. We have one mutual friend on FB so i can see his wall and she posted on his wall: I will be in the bar at 7 come there please we can have drink . I asked him what is going on here and he told me i do not know dude, i think she wants your attention. In the same day a made a party for students and she came there ( i was not there i was ill but my friend tol dme that she came there). And from that moment nothing happened and i tis almost 2 months and i still want her back. Can you help me to understant this behaviour please? Thank you very much.
Chi townD Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Dude, she's immature and a little crazy. She's rubbing the fact that she's getting with all of these guys in your face. Why would you want that? She's damaged goods. She's more interested in torturing you than with talking to you. Hey, you made every effort to get with her. To try and talk with her and she wants nothing to do with that. You can't say that you didn't try. So, now You need to block her on Facebook, not just delete her BLOCK HER! You need to disappear from her life. Time to heal and move on. I know it's not what you want to hear but, how much longer are you going to play these stupid immature games?
Author russty Posted June 5, 2013 Author Posted June 5, 2013 Well, I feel guilty for what i did. I can understant that she is hurt and she wants to return my kidness. I always feel need to repair my previous acts. I thought that when is she playing mind games that it means that she want me to try again. But apparently not. What can i say now, never play with woman heart. Still cant understand how she can say that she likes me and after few days she hates me like a hell, that so wierd.
Chi townD Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 Okay....Dude, you made a mistake and within mere days of everything, you tried to fix it. But now, she's just being vindictive. And the sad thing is, I think she's putting more effort into torturing you that what she did for the relationship. That has to tell you something right there. You made a mistake, you owned up to that. You tried to repair the damage, but she's not having anything to do with that. So, there's really nothing more you can do but to chalk this up to lessons learned. She wants you gone now, so you give her exactly that. She's now making the choice to have you out of her life. Then, fine. Be gone. You need to block her on Facebook. Sounds like you just de-friended her (which isn't good enough). If you only defriended her, you can still have limited access to her page and if she response to a mutual friends status update, you can still see that. When you block her, you see none of that. Do not text her or call her and ignore anything that she sends you (which will probably be hurtful crap anyways). If you learn she's going to be at a certain party, don't go. If you go to a party and she shows up, politely excuse yourself and leave. It's time to heal up and move on. Life is too short to be playing games. SO, your best bet is not to be around your opponent. 1
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