russty Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 (edited) Hello everyone, Here is my situation, i broke up with her out from nothing (via sms ), because i was upset due to her behaviour and also because i had tought time in university (i know, selfish, stupid, idiot). I was shocked what i did, because i dont solve problem in this way. Anyway it happened . I came with deep appologies after two days and she told me that she does not want to talk to me. I said i respect that and i understand. After one week i came to her home to appology again because i felt need to do it personally. I saw that she is happy that i came, but she played stubborn. She told me give me time to decide you hurted me. After two weeks she text me: I like you, we can go somewhere but i do not want be in relationship now. I said ok, i respect that. And then the hell started. After 3 days She saw me in bar having fun and came to me. I was suprised and asked her sit next to me, her answer was arogant no, because you do not want to talk to me a then went away. I was like what??. She immediatelly texted me: I expected more from you and Next day she started to do this: 1-obviously fliting with other guys on FB 2-Posting status like i do not need man 3-she started to be very competitive, i add into some working group and then she added also on some similar groups. I posted photo from party she posted photo from party.. 4-Started posting hot picture of her 5-posting love songs about taking heart back etc... 6-Started to asking out friend of mine suddenly It was during whole months and i decided to not talk to her for a while. I understant that she wanted my attention, so i decided to talk to her after months and, she was very cold. So i told her that i will be in city at night and probably in our bar – no answer.. She came there she said hi to me with smile and went away. I came to her and she started to be angry on me and run away. Her friend came to me and told she does not want to talk to you today. Eventually i stopped her and Again told me how i hurt her and how she has a guy for tonight etc. Next day i tried AGAIN to do some nice gesture towards her, i came with flowers but guess what i was turned down badly i felt like the most needy guy and biggest looser on the earth. So we had fight on FB I asked her why she thinks that im doing this, she told me i do not know, i do not know what you want from me. Then the argument continued and eventually she told me leave me alone. I told her i will and i defriend her from FB. and wrote her a simple appology letter where i told her how sorry i am that i hurt her and that i have feelings for her. I thought that i wont ever hear from her. We have one mutual friend on FB so i can see his wall and she posted on his wall: I will be in the bar at 7 come there please we can have drink . I asked him what is going on here and he told me i do not know dude, i think she wants your attention. In the same day a made a party for students and she came there ( i was not there i was ill but my friend tol dme that she came there). And from that moment nothing happened and i tis almost 2 months and i still want her back. Can you help me to understant this behaviour please? Thank you very much. Edited June 5, 2013 by russty
will1988 Posted June 5, 2013 Posted June 5, 2013 I only read the first paragraph and the numbered 1-6 bits of information. I just couldn't read anymore, this was way to painful to read. Isn't it clear? She is not interested in you any more. Maybe after 3 weeks she wanted to test the waters and see how you two would conect, again. After meeting you she realized that the spark had died, or that she was still bitter about the break up. Now she is trying to move on with her life and trying to heel, albeit in an immature fashion. OR she is playing head games. Either way, I would say it is time for you to cut your loss, and move on. You are still in college, so have fun! Also, take a few English courses, please!
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